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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

I think we need to try to downgrade your mind from a Ferrari to a Corolla (in speed:)). It seems like you're suffering from some huge levels of overthinking, anxiety and insecurity. But look at it fro...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
11 points

We all get nervous sometimes, but common... he knows you stutter. He did not say anything about it. Then what's the problem? Try to be calm, breathe and talk slowly. If you want, you can say to him th...

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postr/StutterJun 13, 2020
25 points

a first date next week... help. please.

a first date next week... help. please. so hear me out. i’ve been talking to a guy i matched with on tinder for ten months. and we still haven’t met... yes i know. eek. basically, i have really bad an...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

My dad calls me lazy for stuttering, i have severe anxiety when I talk to him about certain stuff like my stuttering. He’s says he had a stutter but I told him that I bet it wasn’t as bad as mine, he’...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
4 points

My dad calls me lazy for stuttering, i have severe anxiety when I talk to him about certain stuff like my stuttering. He’s says he had a stutter but I told him that I bet it wasn’t as bad as mine, he’...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
3 points

I’m not saying it’s necessarily a disability, but people seriously don’t understand the amount of stress that comes with not being able to express yourself reliably...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

Hello and welcome! I am so glad you found us and that you found the courage and strength to not let it hold you back. I got my phd and work as a school psychologist, married a great handsome man, expe...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
4 points

As everyone has said, that's an outrageously shitty thing for them to say to you. I'm not sure if it's just me, but I know when something is stressing me out, I stutter more. If I'm comfortable and r...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

I'm actually the same lol. My reason is that I'm afraid that a cute guy might think I'm weird if I stutter in front of him, which ends up with me stuttering even more....

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
2 points

That is awesome. I can promise you that the fear of stuttering is much worse than actually stuttering. You will find that most people genuinely don't care....

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
3 points

Thank you! I'll try not to let my fear of stuttering get in the way...

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postr/StutterJun 12, 2020
7 points

Do you stutter more with a specific gender ?

Do you stutter more with a specific gender ? Hello everyone ! I am a man, but I discovered that I stutter more when I am talking to a man than a woman. Have someone noticed the same thing for hims...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

For me it was the opposite : I discovered that I had more anxiety when I don't know the emotions of the person in front of me. At first it was challenging, because I can see only there eyes. Now that ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

I can stutter on anything if I'm stressed enough but mainly it's any word beginning with Bs Ps and Ds...

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postr/StutterJun 11, 2020
10 points

just recorded a video interview and it sucked so i want to vent a bit

just recorded a video interview and it sucked so i want to vent a bit i just recorded a video interview for an internship application and my stutter was sooooo bad. there were only 4 questions, 1 min...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
1 points

The same thing happened to me when I turned 18, I had never stuttered before that either. I also get blocks at the beginning of sentences so I understand your frustration. Have you had any trauma or a...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
1 points

It's something that I've been thinking about alot lately also. When I first started interviewing for jobs 14/15 years ago I wasn't surprised by peoples reactions, to be honest I was pretty much expect...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
1 points

I remember doing speeches and presentations in class, I hated them because I was afraid to stutter. I do like to talk to people and all that, it sucks...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
2 points

I have been thinking about what you said, it’s so true, in 2020, I think people have evolved but stuttering is still not widely accepted and embraced. It seems that every other physical, emotional, or...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
1 points

Thank you for your response to my OP, it's really reassuring to hear from fellow stutters that have successfully conquered the dreaded job interview, I really hope that I can post positive messages si...

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