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commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

Not trying to be negative at all but I can not possibly understand how opening yourself up to being mocked, made fun of or insulted that undoubtedly leads to some type of trauma being a good thing....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
5 points

You do it by letting yourself stutter when a disfluency comes. The reason you push is because you're resisting stuttering and holding back. This is very hard to work on your own and something a good, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

Okay, then the answer should be at least sort of obvious. Don’t resist your stutter. Easier said than done. But become comfortable with stuttering, so you don’t got to resist. Resist is the same thing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
6 points

This is a loaded question that deserves more of a conversation than a post. It sounds like you may benefit from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or some similar therapy.. We have the stutterer's mindse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
5 points

Does not need to be light repetitions. My therapist had me call businesses and start out with 20 second blocks. What a sadistic woman haha...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

I've a question. What if the voluntary stuttering turns into real stuttering and you can't do voluntary stuttering again because you're really blocking?...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
4 points

To stutter on purpose. The reasons to do this, as it has been discussed it can be used for desensitize; that is to reduce fear and when stuttering moments occur, it will allow you to react to these i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

in my case, voluntary repetition does seem to reduce my blocks and secondary behavior frowns....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
4 points

Add stuttering as light repetitions voluntarily, 2-3 repititons is what i go for, i started with 1 repetition. I repeat the first syllable...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
0 points

Yes 100% But maybe tolerance towards fear and not fear reduction is important? Atleast for me I tried fear reduction all my life, it helps in the moment but doesnt fix the issue itself long term an...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
4 points

But I firmly believe that we only stutter because we are afraid of certain words and spontaneity of speech. So I try to embrace carefreeness and comfort instead of disfluency, because we’re not innate...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

It helps me. I have a friend who has a very interesting take on it. He doesn't want to desensitize it, he wants to embrace his disfluency....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

Yes! It is panic inducing! But you agree, voluntary stuttering helps?...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
15 points

For me, voluntary stuttering was an extremely hard thing to let myself do. I used to get in these huge downward spirals where if I had a bad block, my thoughts would go into oblivion !and I would los...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

I agree. If this technique is getting you an over 95% reduction in impactful dysfluency and related behaviors, and if it’s sustainable then fantastic!...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

I’m pretty sure you will find that almost everyone here who has developed a comfortable fluency has done so by using disclosing of some kind (voluntary stuttering, direct disclosing etc). My person...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
9 points

That can be done only *after* desensitizing yourself to stuttering. How can you work on being fluent if you’re afraid of stuttering? Address the fear and then pursue fluency....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
4 points

I agree that avoiding situations makes stuttering worse. Additionally, avoiding is much bigger than 'situations' like avoiding negative emotions or thoughts. I argue that avoidance of anticipatory fe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 15, 2022
49 points

Voluntary stuttering is ESSENTIAL in my mind

Voluntary stuttering is ESSENTIAL in my mind If your goal is to overcome stuttering, you MUST remove your internalized conception that stuttering is a bad thing, something to be ashamed of. The only...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

If you start stuttering, look her in the eyes and say her beauty takes your speech away, or you are excited to be near her. Practice it though, don't stutter as it ruins the line. Also don't stutter ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Dating & RomanceVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure