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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
4 points

Yeah same.. but I WANT to say the words that I want to say.. Stuttering will get worse for sure if we keep avoiding words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
12 points

For me it’s “hard sounding” letters. Hard C (car, cat, etc), hard B (bill, boat), hard G (golf, gate), hard M (mother, moat). If the word has a blending first syllable I’m fine: CLoud, FLute, BLank...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
2 points

Usually only half a second before I get to them unfortunately Gives me a second to find a different word to say (and 5 more blocks along the way)....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
3 points

Allow me to share a funny story that was not funny at the time but I look back on fondly! About 2 years ago I was getting off of work I was tired, stressed and sluggish everything that helps with a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

Let's change your stance on this. You're not asking for other words to use because you stutter/stammer. "I have a broken ankle, and it hurts when I walk. Can anyone think of another way for me to hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

Using synonyms is a short term solution. It can help to avoid stuttering incidents but don't turn it into your only "crutch". You can also use word linkage, voice modulation, extreme pronunciation, ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I personally don’t think trying to express your words in a way so that you don’t stutter is harmful. If anything, I’ve found that it has increased my useful vocabulary and has made me verbally quicker...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I’ll second (and third) a lot of people who are noting that avoiding words isn’t a great method, and that if you’re in speech therapy, this is a great topic to go over with them. I’m similar to you wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

İ just say "Do you 'member _____" since I talk fast and eat my words no one notice ha ha...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

I wouldn't do that. It'll sound awkward, probably even more awkward than actually stuttering. If you can't think of a good synonym it probably doesn't have one....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
4 points

You could always put a casual spin on it. “Do you ‘member when...” Or change the order of the words. “Remember when..” Or change the emphasis in your head. rEEmember when......

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

“R”s were always very tough for me, then I had two jobs where the agency name started with an “R” so trying to answer a work phone or even say where I work sucked. With some practice, I would still st...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
6 points

I've heard it from both sides. I've heard that avoidance can make your stuttering worse, and I've heard that using synonyms and techniques to avoid stammering improves your stutter because when your s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I've heard it from both sides. I've heard that avoidance can make your stuttering worse, and I've heard that using synonyms and techniques to avoid stammering improves your stutter because when your s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

This is called word substitution and is an avoidance behavior. It will only reinforce your fear of stuttering. Eventually you'll stutter on the replacement word too. It's like people who change their ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
13 points

You probably don't want to hear this, but - avoiding the words you (think you're going to) stutter on is not a good method to not stutter by. It's also not guaranteed that the word you use instead is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
18 points

Synonym

Synonym I'm currently coming up with synonym's for everyday words that I stammer on, but I've come to a sentence that I use often that I just can't seem get around. If I want to ask someone "do you r...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

I’m happy you liked my suggestion :). There are some great options on Etsy where you can personalize a name necklace- so many different styles!!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
1 points

I tell myself I enjoy the isolation and remote learning because I don’t have to interact with people nearly as much. But that’s just me reinforcing avoidance behaviours that are only making my situati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
2 points

You’re absolutely right. I can’t change who I am but I can change my perception of this situation. It honestly makes me feel so much better when I tell people “I stutter, please be patient” I’m not su...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others