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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
0 points

Ah I see, that's fine then. As for your social anxiety being almost 0, how did you notice that? The same question I'd have to ask is to what extent do you stutter less?...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterAug 26, 2020
11 points

The world is HELL if you're ESL and stutter!

The world is HELL if you're ESL and stutter! I am stutter. English is my second language. I lived in US for 3 years. I live with my parents, they took me to US. I am 25. I have no job because no place...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
6 points

" I hated how I felt, besides I’d always end up talking about my life problems rather than focusing on my stutter." So you are saying they are separate things? That's not what many of the more recent...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterAug 26, 2020
59 points

I am 23 and I’m physically and mentally exhausted because I stutter.

I am 23 and I’m physically and mentally exhausted because I stutter. Hello everyone, I hope you’re doing alright, it’s my first time posting, as I said in the title, I am 23 yo and I suffer from stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Genetic & Family FactorsStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
2 points

It could be that you were comfortable in the familiar environment of your old school. An understandable reason to stutter is being in an unfamiliar and public environment like a new school. But a stu...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Environmental TriggersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
3 points

Same man , I feel like people don’t want to talk to me strictly because of my stutter. Which I understand, but dam I like to talk too 😂, I don’t take it personal at all though. I just think it’s funn...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
7 points

Became that quiet guy, also made me anxious so I don't speak often because I think they are making fun of me and my stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
4 points

I now have to think a lot about what I am going to say and stay calm. If I get too excited or anxious I start to stutter....

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
2 points

kind of, but in the moment im so caught up in the stutter that i panic and the only thing thats on my mind is getting through it...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
3 points

Also this is assuming no other heavier stress is already being applied. So this theory doesn’t work in a situation where maybe a student is reading aloud in class. The pressure from a whole class of p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
3 points

*Im sorry. I tried to post on this thread like last week but my account was locked and I could not post* I know exactly how you feel. I still feel it everyday. I’m a 20 year old guy, living in Toro...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
8 points

The thing that us stutterers worry about is how we're perceived. That leads to us shying away when we stutter, worried about how we're going to make fools of ourselves. If your talking confidently, op...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
28 points

Just ask her directly, say that you stutter and if that is a blocker for her. I would do that. Prop she will say no problem, and it should make you more confident. And even when she wants just sex, th...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 24, 2020
60 points

Getting into a relationship and stutter.

Getting into a relationship and stutter. One of my "objectives" this year is to be with someone. I'm 21 and I've never had a real long term relationship with anyone. I had a couple of girlfriends when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
7 points

Lol funny how people think a million is going to solve anything. That million will be spent so quick you'll regret not choosing the second option. With stutter comes anxiety, depression, low self este...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
1 points

It is, for sure, probably because I gotta make a tough life choice! It feels very very defeating lately, but I do agree that we wouldn't know how we would feel indeed, even if we didn't stutter, that'...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
1 points

That's a great reply! How exactly do you keep positive with your stuttering? It feels like the most defeating thing at times, it's sometimes too tough to take it....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
2 points

Your English is very great :)! I completely agree to your ideas, however, how do you not feel down all the time due to the stutter? I feel like if there wasn't the mental package along with the sympto...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterAug 23, 2020
18 points

Stutter in school

Stutter in school I'm 15 years (English is not my 1st language) I stutter quite alot, and have been doing it since 8 years. At this point of my life i have never stuttered as much as I do rn. Mostly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2020
2 points

We're not less likely to be succesful in life statistically. Or at least, you're going to have to further qualify and contextualize that kind of statement. - >I just need to realize that I'm a he...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy