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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
1 points

IM so sorry I wish I could hug you I totally understand.. I’m extremely confident like idgaf!! However I was diagnosed with epilepsy 9 years ago and after seizures sometimes for a day or two I struggl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
1 points

Practice and self-awareness of what you're doing when you relive these moments. Recognize when you're having these destructive thoughts. Tell yourself that such trains of thought are not in any way ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2025
6 points

I just accept that embarrassment is inevitable and move on with my life. The number of times I have embarrassed myself via stuttering is easily in the thousands. Once you've accumulated enough embarra...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2025
3 points

He probably has had the same happen to him & has empathy...that's a horrible thing to hear honestly..have you told your how the impediment has affected your life and how hard/painfull it is for you?.....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterJan 14, 2025
10 points

How do you not relive your bad speech moments?

How do you not relive your bad speech moments? Today in class, I got called on and my pace was fine because I rehearsed the lines in my head but then I stutter. I took a deep breath and tried again. B...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
4 points

Me too. I flipped out and started beating on a few ppl that kept harassing me everyday but they never left me alone and I ended up getting jumped and sent to the hospital I had to leave my 1st high sc...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
1 points

Sorry. I overcame my severe stutter by embarassing myself to the point of not caring....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
1 points

I find that words that are more in your throat and tight in the lips are harder to say. For example, I work in fast food and one word I constantly stutter on is onion. The o is so tight in my throat a...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
4 points

I understand you 100%. I work at a dispensary and have to communicate with customers all day 5 days a week. People always make comments about my stutter, smile and laugh at me when I’m talking. It mak...

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Validation & EmpathyMindfulness & BreathingShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
5 points

Exactly, you hit the nail on the head. As you pointed out, if we don’t like our own stuttering or feel afraid to show it, how can we expect others to accept it and be comfortable with it? It’s somethi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
8 points

You mean, why is it hard to admit to people that you have a stutter and to start talking with a stutter? Because we are ashamed of it. People, in general, find it hard to admit their imperfections, li...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2025
12 points

I can speak for myself: Its so hard for me to accept stuttering because stuttering is not something I see people commonly do. Even if I see someone stuttering they stutter gracefully. In my case its m...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
10 points

I really agree with your statement “everyone around me will look like a complete idiot every time you open your mouth”. This is my situation and it’s isolating you may have heard this from many other ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & IsolationSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterJan 11, 2025
21 points

I'm sorry friends..

I'm sorry friends.. A wonderful restlessness inside me constantly bothers me, makes me angry, irritable and a little disappointed with life. I'm tired of doing overly repetitive jobs without human c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
3 points

Thank you for the advice. I had not been self conscious of it for a while until this just happened. Going to try my best to put it behind me and move forward....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
4 points

Thank you. I thought I had accepted my stutter and it hasn’t been as bad the past few years but for some reason I just locked up at the worst time possible. Going to try my best to put it behind me...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2025
0 points

This is awesome good for u seriously I also have a stutter block when it comes to my name and I hate it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 10, 2025
45 points

The worst just happened

The worst just happened My first week at a new job. I’ve been through some layoffs, bad jobs, etc. so this one really means a lot since it took some work to get here. We have a zoom meeting today wher...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2025
2 points

But like you, i did dread the possibility of having kids who stutter before my son was born, so it wasnt as easy or straightforward as my earlier comment made it seem. thinking back now, a large amo...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2025
6 points

I am not so sure I would recommend it necessarily. When I was young, I would make my friends order for me at a restaurant or a fast food chain because I was too shy to be laughed at or see a crooked ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride