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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
2 points

>The idea of others not viewing you as human is you projecting. IDK exactly what you believe others think of you, but most of it is in your head. You're right, I hallucinate others showing obvious di...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
1 points

"I've seen", "I've been", "I've done", the response I've predicted. This is my life, my life works differently than yours. I've said that I've done and still am doing speech therapy so I'm actively T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 19, 2024
37 points

Nothing can be done

Nothing can be done I am 18M, a transition into adulthood, stressful even for normal speakers. When you stack stuttering on top of the weight of being a responsible adult, things simply become unbeara...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
3 points

Same, most of the time! I rarely have dealt with someone being shitty. Very rare, and has never been someone i care much about. For me, the stutter is more frustrating for me than the other person, h...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 19, 2024
11 points

I have a few disabilitys and I hate my life for it but blame most on the stutter

I have a few disabilitys and I hate my life for it but blame most on the stutter Stuttering is one of my disabilities along with epilepsy, severe anxiety, majer depresion and for some reson I cant spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterJan 19, 2024
36 points

I hate my stutter and everything it causes me

I hate my stutter and everything it causes me I know this is a cliche for this sub but I fucking hate how I can't talk like everyone else. I was bullied in middle school and high school for my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
4 points

combative ahhh response, there’s the possibility that I don’t see a stutter as such a shitty thing as you do and where’d you get the correlation that is label someone into just a “cute” box? wtv but c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

Yo I honestly hope they think something messed up and just sleep easy that karma goes ham when people think stuff about us, especially if we are never gonna see them again...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 17, 2024
20 points

I'm used to it

I'm used to it (sorry for bad English) Today in college my professor asked me a question. I knew the answer but I couldn't said it. I replied to professor I didn't know the answer. Professor scolded m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
3 points

\- Do some sports or gym. \- Try some new speech therapy \- Try mindfulness meditation. I broke a pen or 2 few years ago because if my frustration. But you can work on that. The older I am the more...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingSeeking TherapyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
13 points

Unfortunately there's no real answer to guide you, this is the life of people like us, frustration, anxiety, embarrassment and even anger.. You learn to not join in with conversations, you lear...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 16, 2024
28 points

How do you deal with the frustration?

How do you deal with the frustration? Ive had a stutter since I could talk, and thought I was doing good for a while. But I cannot take it anymore. I want to be able to speak like a normal person but ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2024
1 points

You r weird, if he bothers you why u bring that to this group , either you help him or shut up ! What the point going with details of his stuttering .. verry weird ... Get a life...

Emotional ExperienceMeta
Frustration & AngerNot About Stuttering
postr/StutterMemesJan 14, 2024
7 points

When youre having an argument and they bring your stutter into it

When youre having an argument and they bring your stutter into it ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
10 points

I feel it getting worse at such a pivotal time in my life and not being able to control it is killing me...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJan 12, 2024
16 points

I can't speak a second language even though I know it

I can't speak a second language even though I know it I was born and raised in NYC by Polish immigrant parents. That means all my life I was surrounded by Polish speakers. I may not know how to read...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
4 points

Well, first off, if they are avoiding you because of your stutter, it's on them, not you. Let them avoid you. They don't seem healthy to be around anyway. Not liking people is a normal human feeling...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
6 points

Just talk with people with decent morals and positive vibes bro. Funny you asked this question i just went through this recently too with this big oak at my job. Luckily for me i give 2 fucks cuz he s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
6 points

If you dislike people, they will avoid you. Are you sure it's the stutter they are avoiding? Or is it your energy towards others?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
1 points

the first example you give is bullying. please speak to the teachers, your parents and the school. (Don't stop it like i did through violence you get a rep.) the second your dad sounds like an arseho...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying