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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
1 points

I totally get where you’re coming from. To each their own I guess. As long as someone is happy with how they feel, a perspective doesn’t matter much. Unless it’s offensive or something like that ofc. ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
2 points

All I have to say is it's never too late to let everyone know who you are. I was in a similar situation, but if you learn the embrace those comments and looks, you'll find that being yourself is the m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
1 points

I cant help that I sometimes work around words I know I'll block on or trip over, like words with 'g' sounds or words like tattoo, edit or banana. I've never really found that pronouncing things diffe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
1 points

I dunno. My feelings sorta differ on this subject. Ive never once met another person with a full on stutter, so I sometimes sorta isolated in that way. I have a friend who doesn't have a stutter per s...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHumor & Community ToneAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
4 points

I'm glad you found something that works for you, but for people with more severe stutters these techniques can be damaging. I think someone needs to reach a stage of acceptance and avoidance reduction...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
1 points

"Stutter UAE is made for people who stutter to shine—because we get to shine. We are worth shining." On October 20, 2018, Stutter UAE met in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates to host #CelebratingOutAcc...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PridePublic Awareness / Media
postr/StutterNov 9, 2018
24 points

Has anybody here heard of comedian Drew Lynch? As a stutterer, I absolutely love his stand up and thought you guys might enjoy a little comic relief :)

Has anybody here heard of comedian Drew Lynch? As a stutterer, I absolutely love his stand up and thought you guys might enjoy a little comic relief :) I (30F) stumbled on his stuff a few years ago an...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyPersonal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
2 points

I’m attached to it because my stutter is part of who I am. I’ve never EVER not had a stutter or been a stutterer. I’ve learned to love my stutter, and that being taken away from me is scary. Just beca...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 8, 2018
68 points

Met a Fellow Stutterer at a Gas Station, Went Great

Met a Fellow Stutterer at a Gas Station, Went Great I was getting drinks at a gas station with my friend and I talked to the cashier as I checked out and stuttered a little bit, then my friend checked...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

Yes! When you are drunk you care less so it makes you fluent. What you need to work on is to care less when you are sober (easier said than done)...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2018
2 points

The American Institute for Stuttering in NYC changed my life. While the techniques you learn are helpful, the most helpful part for me was the desensitizing therapy. Walking around washington square...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2018
5 points

Most people get voluntary stuttering wrong. They think it's something you do to reduce fear so you don't stutter as much. Voluntary stuttering has nothing to do with fluency or lessening stuttering. I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Going in with the mindset of not stuttering will only add more pressure and if that doesn't make you stutter more, it will leave you feeling worse about yourself if you do. The best advice I can off...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
2 points

i think you are right, i did similar things as well. you kind of just have to "own" the stutter, whatever that means ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2018
3 points

*How to Win Friends and Influence People* by Dale Carnegie. You're not going to cure your stutter but you can stutter with confidence and be as an effective communicator as someone who is fluent....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2018
5 points

Yes, the voluntary stuttering was something I learned in speech therapy as a young adult. It was very difficult for me, and my speech pathologist had me practice, say do it 3 times a week with people ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
4 points

I understand, and I have been through what you are describing. Stuttering significantly impacted my self-confidence for so long. The social anxiety resulting from having to deal with a stutter was als...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
2 points

i don't know what the hell you're on about, why is it impossible in your mind for someone to overcome their stutter? 5 years ago my stutter was pretty bad and i couldn't say a scentence without some m...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
5 points

It's good to vent and share your frustrations - that's one of the many joys of the modern internet. Another such joy is online communities like this Stuttering forum. I went through something simila...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2018
3 points

Everyone has good days and bad days, it's all part of a process. The closer I get to acceptance with myself, the more fluent I am. Ymmv, obviously. Good luck! ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideSeverity & FluctuationHope & Motivation