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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
2 points

Do you think it was the "don't be nervous" comment that made things worse for you, or a combination of the two? It's definitely my first response to smile warmly and try to put a candidate at ease whe...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterOct 5, 2020
2 points

Boomerang stutter, can anyone relate?

Boomerang stutter, can anyone relate? When I was a kid (19 now) I had trouble saying my R’s - they sounded like W’s, and I was made fun of for it but eventually after therapy I got over the R’s and th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
6 points

Don't smile when he faces a block. I understand you have good intentions but that's one time that smile kills. Once in a viva question I had a block on word "credit" and my interviewer smiled and sa...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
1 points

Personally it was the stutter. I vividly remember not stuttering, up to age 5. I was a bubbly kid by all accounts, I loved talking and did it a lot. I also remember being mercilessly bullied when I de...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
3 points

I think it's just the fear and anxiety. Sometimes I don't really think about my stutter and just accept that I'm like that. Try to not worry about it or at least to not think about it. I know that it'...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 5, 2020
9 points

The fell that you will Stutter?

The fell that you will Stutter? Hi, first of all english is not my first language and i dont know if that questions was asked before and it feels kind of dumb but it was running through my head latel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 5, 2020
4 points

online class, send tips pls

online class, send tips pls So, I'll be having an online class once a week to have a recitation. Class just started now and I'm already freaking out. Can you suggest me some tips to reduce my anxiety,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
2 points

It's such a common thing, I think! That feeling of pure panic when you know you have to say something that you obviously know the answer to but still get stuck on. I just wish more people understood, ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
11 points

Your name came be the hardest thing to say sometimes. It's often in a stressful moment when you meet a new person and sometimes you don't expect it. You want to make a good first impression so you thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
1 points

Of course. And there’s more than just congrats, but I find congrats to be especially embarrassing when I’m at a wedding, or someone just got engaged, or countless other things. I’m like a deer in head...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 4, 2020
3 points

Starting 1st job at a call center, any advice?

Starting 1st job at a call center, any advice? I'm a pharmacist, was somehow able to get blessed with an amazing job working at a call center with good pay, no weekends, etc. I am in orientation now, ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 3, 2020
2 points

I started stuttering in my 20s, what doctor should I approach?

I started stuttering in my 20s, what doctor should I approach? I realize I rarely stuttered as a kid and teen because I was aloner that never spoke. On the other way my most fluid means of communicati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightSituational Variability+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2020
4 points

Reading this made me smile and motivated. I am in my second last year of my education course to become a teacher and I get butterflies in my stomache during the start of the day because I know I'll be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 2, 2020
1 points

Panicking

Panicking I can't stop crying and shaking, I'm starting a pastry course in 5 days and I've been thinking about the moment where I need to introduce myself since I found out about the course. Im so sca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2020
2 points

Heya! I’m a senior in university with ADHD (diagnosed as a child) and a stutter as well. I didn’t have the luxury of finding ways to cope and diagnose it when I was younger, but you’re doing great thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2020
6 points

I’m not sure I get what you’re asking. Are you asking how my (a stutterer) brain works? I have no idea. For all I know, it’s some sort of magical grey organic computer that generates electricity. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

Interesting comment, thanks for sharing. I can see why someone might look away if you're really struggling with a word, almost like giving you space to work through it instead of staring and putting p...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

I haven’t tried Shrooms so I can’t tell, but from my experience with Alcohol and Weed, I think it depends on your state of mind. For instance, Alcohol alters your state of mind and gives a strange new...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 1, 2020
85 points

I didn’t know there were so many people like me

I didn’t know there were so many people like me Hi, everyone! I’m a lifelong stutterer and for so long I’ve felt completely alone and sheltered. I’ve been ashamed of my stutter my entire life and hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
2 points

Personally, I really appreciate the help of I'm having trouble. But some people really hate it. Best to ask the person what they prefer. But more generally, something I really appreciate when talkin...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment