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postr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
48 points

Family drama over my speech impediment M18

Family drama over my speech impediment M18 Last night, I went out to eat for my sisters birthday with my other sister and her children. Eating at restaraunts has always been a big source of anxiety an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
1 points

You weren't going to finish university. You weren't going to use your diploma. Using words like "impossible." Assuming people are pitying you. Thinking that you'll end up with nothing. There's a ton ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
1 points

I have this shit too. I can't even say a simple sentence at all. Whenever I do try to talk normally, I keep making a STUPID ASS FUCKING NOISE. It won't go away and it can't be fixed. Its going to piss...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2024
6 points

We have been rejected so many times that we have become numb to it. Now rejection feels normal. Not just rejection from the opposite sex, but from people we meet everyday. People who are stuttering fo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2024
3 points

Deal with the anxiety of stuttering words, sometimes you may not get it right and that’s okay don’t let the frustration creep in...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2024
2 points

keep it like that. i’ve been struggling in school when i was a kid from people making fun of my stutter , that gave me a very attacking side towards people who make fun of me. now i literally can make...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2024
1 points

1. Try the 'silly' version of the swear word. That way you get the satisfaction of implying the swear word, plus maybe people will find you funny. 2. Experience that specific anger again and again til...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Strategic Swearing/CursingFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJan 30, 2024
10 points

Hopeless

Hopeless Hate this stutter with my entire life. Can’t even hold my ground in front of my family coz I’m getting stuck on every word. I’ve lost all hope in everything. Can’t even find a job in my caree...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterJan 30, 2024
11 points

How do I stop swearing when I stutter?

How do I stop swearing when I stutter? I do this thing where when I stutter I get frustrated and I often say a swear word; then I try to finish up what I was intending to say. I’d rather not do this ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Strategic Swearing/CursingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2024
2 points

Mhh na not really. If they think it is ok to insult me or to make fun of my stutter then oh am gonna either smash some come backs or throw hands....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJan 30, 2024
15 points

The "Motivational Speakers" in this community is getting really annoying.

The "Motivational Speakers" in this community is getting really annoying. Look im not advocating that we should all have a pity party about the fact that we stutter. But some people will simply never ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2024
1 points

Slackers… lol. I have worked and worked and worked in my life. I am not a slacker. Living with a stutter is constant work. If you don’t understand then you don’t. Not my problem....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2024
3 points

Have you ever explained it to them, just like that? That you cannot really control it and that their comments are frustrating to hear? If you have and they still behave like this, I’m sorry to tell y...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJan 28, 2024
18 points

Family making fun of my speech.

Family making fun of my speech. I don’t exactly stutter all the time or have been diagnosed with anything, but I struggle with my speech. I can speak really fast and stumble over my words and repeat m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2024
2 points

I'm in my late 20's and even though I'm positive I do have a temper, but it's reserved for insensitive people. The thing I noticed growing up is a lot of life is all about how you let things affect yo...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2024
1 points

Well tbh I’m also short tempered and i just say whatever i have in my mind. Often leads to arguements with my teachers which my grades can’t afford lol...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2024
3 points

I got rejected from all the branches except the army. Thank god that I didn't force myself to join. My father who's a ex vietnam vet tried to force me to join for years because I couldn't get anywhere...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 25, 2024
8 points

Blessing and a curse

Blessing and a curse I sometimes think that my stutter is a blessing in a sense. I have a short temper and carry a lot of anger which will sometimes make me speak my mind before thinking. Especially i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
11 points

Your therapist is correct in her advice regarding the unhelpful advice of slow down and We still get that advice as adults, as if we couldn't think of that ourselves. Techniques make things worse, not...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Positive Therapy TechniquesUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
3 points

I hated presenting so much. I once asked the teacher in private if I could skip out and she didnt let me. Hated that b**** for making me talk. Looking back I shouldve just not done it but as a kid I f...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerSchool & Academic Life