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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
2 points

The speech therapist I worked with really focused on coping mechanisms and addressing my stutter emotionally. It was really effective for me. This was also the only time in my life (36/F) that I had o...

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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2019
3 points

That’s so true. But I think it all comes back to how we carry ourselves. I read somewhere else in this community of someone who said that stuttering didn’t define or change the tone of the various poi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2019
3 points

I think the same thing too. But like imagine this right? You could be the hilarious guy that everyone likes, he just has a stutter. I always wonder how people would see me if I just let myself be my...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
2 points

I’ve laughed at a stutter before too. You relate to him. What’s the first rule of comedy? Talk about things the audience relates too. He’s not doing it on purpose but for someone in the know, he may a...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
2 points

My first time meeting other stutters was at a stuttering support group, and I felt bad because I couldn’t help but laugh. Not that I was laughing to be mean or anything, I was just laughing and can’t ...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
2 points

Does his more-open stuttering make you feel uncomfortable? Maybe your laughing is just an automatic way you’re responding to something in him that you aren’t comfortable doing? This happened to a frie...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
1 points

How are you going to apply to jobs and not accept offers because of "stuttering" if it pays better and is more established TAKE IT. I work for a established aerospace company and I interact with many ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
1 points

well how much of bump are we talking here? lets say if your making 100k and are getting a 10k bump thats not much overall for all the headache you would have to go through but if its 20+ with more day...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
1 points

>conflict >difficult people >lack of trust >doesn't like interacting You know what - and I don't mean to sound like a smartass - but I deal with those things, and I stutter, and I sti...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
3 points

There is a reason, a very good reason. It lets them know before hand, so they know what to expect. it can be hard for people, if its the first time they have ever spoken to someone with a stammer, som...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
2 points

Hey, I told my flatmate before we first met that I had a stammer. He was cool with it, I think sometimes its best to tell people, so they dont kinda freak out if you do stutter badly....

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2019
9 points

Congratulations on the internship! > I can't change the way I talk, but I can sure as hell change the way I think about it This. All the way. I went to a speech therapist for about 1.5 years, an...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
8 points

This may sound weird, but it almost sounded like she was projecting her thoughts about herself & weightloss onto you. Because everything she said about you could have been said about her self. I’m...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 11, 2019
30 points

Some thoughts and things that help me be fluent

Some thoughts and things that help me be fluent So I’ve had a moderate stutter my whole life. Recently though, this past month, I’ve been the most fluent I’ve been in a while. I wanted to share some r...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
3 points

The girl I like is extroverted because I’m pretty talkative myself. She’s complimented how outgoing I am despite my stutter....

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

I've been stuttering since I could speak. It was the same me for me! It's like fear of public speaking amplified. My only advice is to keep talking. Take jobs that require you speak a lot (like retail...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
1 points

It used to affect a lot, but now I just don't care, there's some people still tell jokes but literally no one cares about it anymore, and me neither, everything you have to do to always be good is not...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
3 points

A lot in the past, but a lot less now. Everyone has something imperfect about them, and I would rather have stuttering than certain other things (like being mute, for example). Also, I've learned that...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
4 points

It's a self-fulfilling prophecy, essentially. At least it was/is for me, and it seems to be for you. You think that anxiety causes stuttering, which leads to stuttering in anxious situations, which le...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

You know could always be worse is how I think of it, at least I can communicate with other human entities on some level or degree...

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