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commentr/StutterDec 4, 2016
2 points

I've encountered other stutterers and even worked with a guy who stuttered. At first I felt bad for em too, but afterwards, I would marvel and wonder how their life was. I was at Walmart one time, and...

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commentr/StutterDec 4, 2016
4 points

Hi there! McGuire member here also, for 1 and a bit years. Have attended 5 intensive courses so far, and it's changed my life. I have a bit of advice for you on the rest of your journey: * If you'r...

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postr/StutterDec 3, 2016
16 points

So....I've been to the McGuire Program

So....I've been to the McGuire Program A little while ago I was encouraged by a number of people in this subreddit to go to a McGuire Program intensive course, and I did.... here are my insights Fir...

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commentr/StutterDec 2, 2016
1 points

That's rough. Sorry you have to go through it alone. I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy but in a way if I didn't have my dad (he stutters too) I honestly don't know where I would be...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
1 points

Recently, I have been doing stuff to make me feel better about myself. Working out, eating healthy, staying on top of school work, etc. I'm still working on changing my mindset, but that comes with ti...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
2 points

I think stuttering can be a benefit in the working world, for something close to this reason. You get some automatic respect if you don't let it hold you back. The push to prove we're competent helps ...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
1 points

I feel like we need to get the idea of finding a cure out of our heads. I had a fairly severe stutter for a good chunk of my life & the ONLY thing that has allowed me to consistently improve my f...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
2 points

I feel ya man. College should be a time to meet new people and get out of your comfort zone. It's just so damn hard. Work on fixing your mindset, the only person that truly cares about your stutter is...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
3 points

I work as a server at a Sonic drive in. I definitely have a lot of bad days and I have mostly overcome my stutter since it first stared 13 years ago when I was just 9. I still have trouble with any "t...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2016
1 points

I've had great presentations and terrible presentations. I honestly can't predict what it will be day by day. But the important thing is to keep your chin up and continue to stand up there and keep go...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2016
5 points

Thanks for your post, just feels good to talk to other stutterers on the internet. Y'all seem like a great bunch of people and I hope we can all enjoy fluency sooner or later....

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2016
10 points

I'm 34 and was in a pretty similar boat. I stuttered severely through grade school, hs, and college. I lost count of how many days nobody could understand me when I was a teenager, I missed out on t...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2016
1 points

It could be that the best treatment is simply practice. As difficult as it is, there is power in "putting yourself out there" and leaning in to the discomfort of speaking in situations where you aren'...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2016
5 points

Sorry bud, the post presentation blues are no bueno. I feel your feelings and sympathize ✊. A little unwanted advice, Try to mitigate the negative thoughts as much as possible- easier said than done. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2016
7 points

Just building up that scar tissue. Been there many times. Might not feel like it today or even in a year but as long as you keep putting yourself out there, you're going to get numb to the embarrassme...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2016
1 points

Thanks for the comment. I never believed that I would grow out of my stutter either, even though family members often told me I would. I think controlling frame has a lot of benefits beyond just makin...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2016
1 points

I think this is good. You don't have to make it can iron clad rule, but just keeping it in mind and taking chances is a good thing. Just remember, you're doing this for you. the listener reaction doe...

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postr/StutterNov 28, 2016
2 points

Stuttering and Frame Control

Stuttering and Frame Control Hi all, It's easier for me to be comfortable speaking and being a stutterer if I control the frame of my reality and also the frame of each conversation I have. I'm not ...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2016
1 points

Relax however you can at the end of it, get your mind off it, enjoy your favourite hobby, don't think about it. There will always be bad days, for everyone in the world. If they don't kill you, just k...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2016
4 points

I acknowledge that I wasn't perfect, then I remind myself that it's OK, in the grand scheme of things, to not be perfect. I try to get extra sleep that night and I go on my way, one day at a time....

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