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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
2 points

No problem at all! Yeah, that's very true, I find that my speech gets worse when I focus on it too much and that as a result, I start to stress more, which creates a toxic speech cycle, it can be a v...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
1 points

Because it can, so it did... Thats whats stuttering is about, it can do whatever it can and you cannot do much about it, just reconcile with a fact. I would be gratefull that I can still comunicate ev...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
2 points

Thank your for the kind words! Appreciate it. I also noticed it depends on mental health a lot. Over the years I became hyperfocused on my speech which makes it harder to focus on the substance of a ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
3 points

You summed it up perfectly. I do exercises daily, such as: reading out loud various texts, speaking to myself in the mirror, trying variations of speaking faster/slower, breathing exercises. These ar...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
1 points

My pleasure, bud! Another free piece of advice I’d like to share with you is to try and follow the rule of three’s: For an extrovert, try and participate no more than 3 times to the conversation so o...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
10 points

I don't know wheater it's the same or not, but I feel like it's worth mentioning. People often say to me that they didn't understand me (even when I didn't stutter in that sentence) or that I should s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
2 points

I get what you're saying, but a slightly different way of looking at it might be...Yes, there is a very deep well which is full of pain, frustration, anxiety, even a bit of shame for good measure but....

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
3 points

By the time I was in my twenties, I had coped with that social anxiety and fear. I wouldn't say that I coped with it well. When I was very young I was a very nice kid. Stuttering did a number on me ...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

The harder you try to speak, what people consider normal, the more tension you create causing you to stutter. The toughest thing to do is to figure out how to stop caring and just let go. I’m almost...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

Hope I’m not too late to chime in! Like many other people have pointed out, there’s really not a ton of jobs that will flat-out be impossible without a stutter. I, 22m, just graduated college with a...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

I just left a comment on that post because of how much it relates to what I have struggled with...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

That’s a loaded question haha. The answer to that is unfortunately not satisfying. It depends on the person and mostly time.So what’s worked for me won’t necessarily work for you but here’s a couple t...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

I echo a lot of the sentiments on here. I’m 27 and have been stuttering since I can remember. Attended lots of speech therapy, had bfs, friends, and the like but rarely interact with others who stutte...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

Exact opposite with me. I don't stammer much when I am speaking in my native language but I start to very much when I speak in English....

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

I am considerably better now than I was as a child. But I was so afraid to speak in public or to my family as a child it had to create some traumatic / stress issues. I can remember being in class a...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

Forsure! Feel free to shoot me a pm so I can tell you details about how I work with this...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

I mean, I sometimes completely breakdown in Drive-thrus so I’m pretty sure my mental health is not the best. 😅😅😅...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
2 points

We want to express ourselves and stutter can make this very difficult. We change the way we speak or what we say as avoidance strategy. At the beginning of this year I made self expression my topic o...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
13 points

Self care is important! I've noticed doing something for myself (drive, walk, car work, etc) helps my overall well being as well as my stutter. I worked at a small assisted living home for a year an...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

I could see how it might not resonate with you, but I am a covert stutterer who rarely stutters (Like I said I recently went a whole month without stuttering) so this mindset for me isn’t that terribl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking