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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

I was working as a waitress for one year but my stuttering was making me my job very hard. Even though most people didnt mind, there were always young/drunk people making fun of my stutter. After quit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

What helps also is accepting we aren’t perfect speakers and that messing up is ok. This eases the tension and you will stutter more easily. Fighting it = tension Accepting it = less tension...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

When I absolutely can’t say what I want, most of the time I’ll point to what I want on the menu. The server is almost always fine with it, makes it easier if it’s a restaurant with food I can’t pronou...

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postr/StutterAug 4, 2021
10 points

Applying for job

Applying for job Hey guys, looking for a job now since there are a lot of openings. But all I find is customer service. Example , Hotel reception, Store associate. Restaurant. Just to name a few. I ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 4, 2021
8 points

How do I stop stuttering?

How do I stop stuttering? I'm 17 i have speech problems, stuttering started at grade 1 It got worst when i grow up. before i was extrovert, always talking with my friends. but now i'm introvert dealin...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Stammering is caused from trying not to stammer. It’s a catch22 You fix it by just not caring about it and not worrying about it. Not easy I know. I’m not a doctor but you may be able to get on so...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
1 points

Note exactly with names, but I have a difficulty to say word with "r" and "t". So, when I get stuck talking a only word, I always pretend that I didn't hear, so the people come again, and if this I ha...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

It’s very tough and the obstacles we go through to avoid speaking situations is so tiresome. We stutter because we try to be normal speakers and we are not. We fear the we may mess up which is in fact...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 3, 2021
16 points

The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂

The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂 The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂 I used to think it was my stutter.  I used to think that if I were fluent, my soci...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
4 points

I'm 30 and have had a pretty mild stutter since around 10, my mum and brother have one too. School was hard, but I got through it without too many big obvious stutters. Mainly from word substitution a...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesGenetic & Family Factors+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

I am studying to be a speech therapist and I have heard of this. With names, it is hard because you can't switch the word up to avoid the stutter. I treated a teenager and one of his things is he coul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
6 points

Dude I covert stutter, and back when Captain America Civil War came out, a friend and I went to watch it. Then we went to the Wing Stop that was right next to the theater after the movie was over. I h...

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
15 points

Yeah my work is remote and I use this trick every time I speak. It's annoying cause when work was in person my boss would always say I need to work on fixing my stutter and now that it's gone (it's no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
5 points

Two main factors: 1. Time pressure: there is no other word like your name. With other words, you can take 0.5 seconds to think, to breathe, to prepare. But if you do that with your name you get “the l...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
5 points

Hearing yourself speak into what causes you to block. You can _trick_ your brain for a while, which is what devices like the speech easy do, but they generally don't work long term and your brain will...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
1 points

I have found sometimes when I speak into a microphone and my voice is delayed just a tad bit. It makes it easy for me to speak. Strange how hearing yourself speak is what’s causing us to block. 🤔...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

Ha I have the same thing with my family. I just say it’s not a sure way to fix everything, and just ignore them. They mean well but… can go over the top....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
4 points

This is an awesome tip ty! I've seen that movie many times (for obvious reasons), but for some reason I've never thought to actually try that method irl. I highly recommend everyone who reads this go...

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postr/StutterAug 2, 2021
15 points

My family keeps bugging about speech exercises. I get annoyed when they bring it up. I don't know what to do.

My family keeps bugging about speech exercises. I get annoyed when they bring it up. I don't know what to do. I am a stubborn asshole. Most of the time i try to run away from the fact that i stutter. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
11 points

Tbh I prefer when people finish my sentence or alteast the word that I'm struggling on. Means I don't have the stunner as long, and I can carry on with the rest of what I was saying. Seems to be an un...

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