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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
11 points

Let me tell you a story.... My mom came with me to freshman orientation.... groups of kids in my major were placed into a rooms with their parents and we all had to stand up and introduce ourselves. S...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
2 points

Its something we are all born with. Something is not how it should be in our brains. Nothing major just. Its not something that will dissapear or solutions for. The best way to deal with it is make yo...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
2 points

It depends. To be honest, your stutter is a part of you but it isnt YOU; accepting your stutter positively is the best think you can do. It isnt a disadvantage, its a fact of life. Having a stutter is...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
2 points

As someone who mildly stutters now, the best advice to give is to get rid of the idea that you want him to “quit stuttering” because it will always be there. I used to stutter severely when I was youn...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
3 points

It seems like your son is on the right track. Self-acceptance and non-avoidance are key elements in controlling one's speech, and those can only be achieved by challenging himself in tough speaking si...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
1 points

It depends on the people you'll meet throughout your life, but it also depends on you a little bit. If you stay positive eventually you'll get positivity, if you stay negative you'll always get negati...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
5 points

I have a stutter, had one ever since I could speak. Seeing how the speech therapist didn’t help, nor did it help me. I only have one thing I can recommend. Just that you and he need to come to terms w...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
5 points

There's plenty of people who stutter (PWS) who attend college and do fine. I do suggest if your son takes a speech course or any course where the professor requires a presentation to be made to tell t...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
17 points

I would advise you to firstly let go of the intention “I don’t want my son to stutter.” That is probably the worst thing to tell him as it builds even more insecurities. The best thing you can do is ...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
65 points

>I dont want my son to stutter. Guide me. This is honestly the entire issue of stutter. We don't want to stutter, but we are people who stutter. Wanting to not stutter as a person who stutters is ...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2020
2 points

Was going to use this as a throwaway, but I logged back in to say thanks. That’s relieving. I’m going to keep pushing forward to increase our representation and hopefully help change the stigma associ...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2020
1 points

Oh, I'm not minimizing anything. Sometimes, people don't meet on the same page. This is a case of that, I reckon. My comment is in a certain mindset space, and you're in another. I don't think there...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2020
1 points

I can tell you are coming from a good place but advice like this is what makes me personally feel worse about my relationship with my stutter. There is a lot of shame that can be tied to stuttering ...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2020
0 points

I completely agree with you. DON'T GIVE UP. I am 30 years old, and I stutter myself. I got my B.S. in Biology, so I know organic chemistry 1 & 2 are extremely difficult. Do not give up on being a ...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
5 points

That is amazing... my mother always tried her best to help me as a child but what we know today is so much more than what we knew when I was 6 years old (I’m 27). The best thing anyone can do for you ...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
2 points

This definitely holds true. I’m actually a full time artist that stutters. Originally I didn’t make work that reflected my stutter but over the past few months I’ve been making work inspired by my stu...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
1 points

Oh, I'm perfectly aware of the variance we can experience as stutterers. It's something I mention a lot in here. I'm also very much promoting a positive outlook in here (but you'd have to look for so...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
2 points

That’s great that you seem to be in a good place with your view on stuttering but as a person who stutters I’m sure you also go through fluctuations in your acceptance of stuttering. Sometimes peopl...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
2 points

Ig: agenttegan I LOVE ART! It's my happy place. You are so right about stutterers having so many other talents. This one guy I work with I've noticed a slight stammer and he is an absolute wizard in ...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2020
1 points

I think so, better is to have stuttering, then be without hands or legs...

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