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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
3 points

It really depends, everyone has their own experiences and confronts to their stutter in very different ways. I personally accept it as a part of myself but i want to handle it as well. But in any case...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
4 points

I suppose we could mention something like Stockholm Syndrome... - The way I look at it (personally) is that I want to say what I wanted to say, and this sometimes means facing a stutter head on. In ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
17 points

This is a tough one and opinions differ, so this is my personal view. I won't say I embrace it or even prefer to speak with a stutter. For a long time I saw it as an alien element and wanted to wash ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 2, 2020
34 points

Does anyone feel that stuttering is apart of their identity and prefers to not use techniques they have learnt to speak more fluency?

Does anyone feel that stuttering is apart of their identity and prefers to not use techniques they have learnt to speak more fluency? My partner has a stutter. They have gone to years of speech therap...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2020
10 points

Done! Love this survey. I’m curious about your findings. It was interesting questioning these things for myself, and finding out just how little stuttering has actually affected my career path. Luck...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationPersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2020
8 points

For me, I stopped focusing on my stutter and focused on just living. The more I did that, my fluency improved. Don't get me wrong, I still have blocks so I just breathe, and continue with my con...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideMindfulness & BreathingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2020
5 points

It's really interesting that us stutteres recognize stuttering when we hear it within a split second while fluent people would never notice. I'm a huge fan of the singer Megan Washington who pretended...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2020
1 points

I feel we have to really work on our thoughts, beliefs and perceptions as people who stammer. I am now in my 40s and started to reflect a lot more on my thought while reading a book by John Harrison w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2020
2 points

You're brave for demonstrating your stutter. I know many people who stutter who let the fear of it control their lives. Anyways, don't be to hard on yourself for someone being mean to you. They're th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2020
1 points

Mine comes and goes like waves in the ocean. I try to ride them out, but sometimes I eat sand....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2020
1 points

My stutter decreased at periods when i talked more to people or read something outloud. And when i was more quiet it increased so i think you have to communicate with people you feel closest to. Im 16...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2020
2 points

I think disclosing that you stutter is a great idea! I know for me it takes a lot of pressure off to be fluent once people know I stutter and then I tend to communicate more effectively. It’s also les...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2020
7 points

First of all, congratulations. Second, disclose your stutter. Third, breathe. You got this!!!!...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2020
1 points

>Instead of “oh no!”, you eventually switch to “that would suck if it happened”, to “if it happens it happens”, to not even thinking about it anymore. When I was younger, I barely thought about it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
6 points

My 2 cents: I no longer pay attention to my stutter. I focus on living my life and enjoying every second of it. When I speak, my mind automatically just tells my mouth to speak. If I have a bloc...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
3 points

Love can be expressed in more ways than speech. There's many love languages. And why does fluency even matter when dealing with people who love us and we trust?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2020
4 points

Take all the time you need. Your success is that you called, that’s something to be proud of. The restaurant wants your business regardless if you block or not. Stutter proudly and order food for your...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 25, 2020
4 points

Thoughts/experiences with "Speech Anxiety Anonymous" (SAA)

Thoughts/experiences with "Speech Anxiety Anonymous" (SAA) Hi everyone, I recently came across a website titled SAA and read testimonials of the program's efficacy in "curing" stuttering. I don't beli...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2020
1 points

Come to an NSA conference! (In the US) there are international conferences too! This year is cancelled but look into it in the future. I was blown away at my first one, it’s crazy to meet so many peop...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2020
1 points

This was a huge fear of mine. However, with that being said, I'm the only one in my family who stutters. My daughter is nearing 10 and she is beautifully fluent with a huge vocabulary. ♥...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride