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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

40-something here. Just a couple of tips: Try to 'stammer forward' - don't repeat sounds, and always be trying to move on to the next sound whenever possible. Maintain eye contact (not in an 'establ...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

i know what that feels like. to just feel like a slave to your voice. it's the worst when you know exactly what you need to say but you just have to sit there and fumble with your mouth while everyone...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

and that's the thing, i LOVE to talk to people and socialize. i'm a social guy with people i feel very comfortable with, it's just in situations where i'm nervous i choke. i really appreciate your res...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
6 points

Also a 16 year old stutterer here. The thing I want you to know is that most people (I mean like 99.9999999%) won't care about your stutter and are mature enough to understand. You're your own worst e...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
4 points

I have my own theory for this. The fact that we stutter gives us a disadvantage, therefore we have to adapt and I think most of us are very good listeners. I don't talk a lot because of my stutter so...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

I don't know the answer. It comes and goes with me??? I am sure anxiety plays a role, maybe not the root but exacerbates it. What I do know is anyone today that would discount you b/c of your/our sp...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
12 points

I mean, I agree and disagree: I do think that anxiety plays a huge role in it, but the root cause is dually a subconscious tightening of certain muscles in the neck and improper breathing when speakin...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2017
1 points

For the most part I'd consider myself to be extroverted. However, just like everybody else on the planet, I do enjoy many moments alone too. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2017
2 points

You got this! The only advice is to relax and let it flow. As a mild stutterer myself, even though I feel speech blocks at least once per sentence, no one seems to notice but me....

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2017
2 points

Just wanted to say, before selling my soul to the devil and going corporate, I also worked as a journalist - for three years, on a tropical island off Africa. First I covered the general news beat and...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
2 points

I'm very extroverted. I get energy and happiness from being around people. Even though I stutter, my friends tell me I'm the most outgoing in the group which to me is very ironic. Though I'd say that'...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
2 points

No I consider myself an idiot, I do notice that I do get "louder" ( if you want to call it that) when I'm playing basketball but as soon as the game is over and I sit down to get some rest I turn back...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2017
1 points

You can definitely work in journalism, my friend! My only skills in school were in English, and at your age I took physics and chemistry in high school instead of advanced English purely because I d...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2017
1 points

Yeah that's a very good point. Most introverts I am friends with aren't picky so much as reluctant to let anyone in, and to them letting someone in is defined as being their friend. As an extrovert I ...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2017
1 points

Oh I definitely agree! People and their personalities change all the time, but the Myers-Briggs part is only one side of a person. Like others have mentioned it is not scientific, but it can still se...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
2 points

It may not mean a lot, but a ton of us, myself included have felt very similarly to how you are describing. It definitely does get better, people stop being assholes, and you become more comfortable w...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
1 points

Natural extrovert. I reckon if I didn't stutter I would probably be talking to everyone all day about everything. ...

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

I've formed my opinions through my own personal experience as a stutterer & from my interactions with others who stutter. Obviously your experience has been different from mine as you've met peop...

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commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
6 points

I absolutely agree, and I'm glad you asked that question, because it leads into an important issue amongst a lot of stutterers. I spent four (mostly) wonderful years with my crush from early middle s...

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commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
8 points

If you want to look at it that way ;) I'm here simply as a resource for anyone with questions about how I made it here, and also to serve as proof that stuttering doesn't always have to hold you back...

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