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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
7 points

You have to think positively. Having the stutter definitely is something that's difficult to deal with but having a negative mindset doesn't help at all. If you keep telling yourself you'll never be i...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 15, 2021
26 points

talking to a shy boy i like who stutters

talking to a shy boy i like who stutters i am very attracted to a friends friend who stutters. i dont know him very well and i only see him when we hang out as a group and the last time we hung out i ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
3 points

I can't agree more on all you illustrated to me cuz they are also haunting in my mind! But now I'm not shy and speaking quiet, instead, I'm now speaking with a powerful and encouraging voice and some ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
4 points

I think what happened is that you originally may have been speaking quietly because of being shy. And then when somebody asked you to speak louder, it felt out of your comfort zone and speaking louder...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
3 points

Noooo not ok. I don’t stutter by myself so I know im capable of not stuttering around others. I have really bad anxiety and stutter slightly when talking to people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
2 points

I would also like eye contact even while in a block. Just keep eye contact and look relaxed so the person that stutters also feels relaxed. It only makes me feel self conscious if the person looks awa...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
5 points

Ultimately it depends on the individual. Prolonged eye contact in any scenario will get uncomfortable, but I think you’re right in treating it like any other conversation. For me personally, if I coul...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterOct 14, 2021
16 points

Seeking input on being a good listener

Seeking input on being a good listener Hi all! I don't have a stutter but I've recently met a new friend who does and I'm curious to know more about being a polite listener & a good friend for som...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
1 points

Fake confidence can turn into real confidence, if you succeed at this at the start on the presentation you have pretty much nailed the rest(it's a bit of a gamble but is great when it works) Also try...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterOct 14, 2021
13 points

Stutter got really bad out of nowhere and for the first time in my life its getting into my head

Stutter got really bad out of nowhere and for the first time in my life its getting into my head Hello everyone, I am a very extroverted person and I have never let my stutter get in the way of anyth...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
1 points

I am in exactly the same boat right now! I was also VERY social in high school and was involved in everything social. It was also like this in start of university, but now, 1 year later, my stutter i...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
postr/StutterOct 13, 2021
3 points

Have you asked any questions from your teachers, in your class, when you were in your school or college?

Have you asked any questions from your teachers, in your class, when you were in your school or college? I....... Never..... Asked....... Even I had lots of doubts to ask. I was just.... too scared to...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
1 points

If you don't stutter and have social anxiety you can hide it very very well. And most likely if they avoid situations that give them the most anxiety, you aren't going to see them go into a panic att...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
2 points

It's normal to define things by your own experiences. But the truth is, our limited experiences give us a pretty narrow understanding of things. One thing I've learned from this group is that my stut...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
6 points

Social anxiety can be mutually exclusive to a stutter. If you have a stutter, it can make it worse. But of course you can have social anxiety without a stutter....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 13, 2021
5 points

Can you have social anxiety and not stutter?

Can you have social anxiety and not stutter? I have had a few of my friends confess to me that they have social anxiety and often get it when we go to parties. Yet I was never able to pick up on it ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterOct 12, 2021
1 points

Phone call nervousness

Phone call nervousness Anyone experienced being nervous about making phone calls when working on a job that requires phone calls and file notes like auto adjuster for example; I work with State Farm ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 12, 2021
13 points

People who have social anxiety

People who have social anxiety Hello everyone, I've realized recently that there are a lot of teenager (Im 17 myself) who have social anxiety and make it their lifestyle or act like they can't talk in...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
1 points

I think you just phrased it poorly. The guy didn't ask if you stuttered, he asked if he had stuttered. If you'd just said that you found it unfunny or disrespectful since yourself have a stutter, I th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
4 points

If you said, "I have a stutter, and I really don't like when people use this phrase to express that their original point was final." ...then you would have gotten downvoted less. But it looks like y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying