Seeking input on being a good listener
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Seeking input on being a good listener Hi all! I don't have a stutter but I've recently met a new friend who does and I'm curious to know more about being a polite listener & a good friend for someone who stutters. I've only known one other person who stuttered and only interacted with them in a group setting at work. I noticed that often when he would stutter, everyone would look away, especially when it was more noticeable or prolonged. My instinct is to maintain as much eye contact as I would in any other conversation, but it can also feel rude to stare. I guess my question is, if you are having a block or prolonged stutter, do you prefer the person you are speaking with to keep looking at you, or would that make you feel self conscious? I hope this makes sense - I really want to make them feel comfortable and assured that I'm listening. I'd like to ask their preferences eventually, but we've only just met. If there's anything else that would be helpful to know, please share. Thanks!!!