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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
11 points

It's a jackass response, even if he didn't mean it as such. Maybe try voluntary stuttering on your name each time you say it, even if you can say it fluency. Take all the power of the fear of stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
9 points

we have to realize that people who judge us aren’t worth stressing over. one of the only positives of stuttering is that you can get a pretty good read of someone’s character within a few seconds of s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 17, 2024
28 points

I can’t even say my own name

I can’t even say my own name This is one of my biggest struggles and sources of embarrassment. Recently, I was at the club and a guy asked me for a cigarette, he then asked me my name and i couldn’t g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

I'm the same! I have had to bastardize my given name for years. At any job I have had I have asked everyone to refer to me as a name that's doesn't even resemble my given name!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 17, 2024
2 points

How to tell the word

How to tell the word Do u guyz have a technique to say the word that is blocked.. I have speech block... And when block appears.. I usually skip or use synonym, any trick to tell the word, i usually ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterDec 17, 2024
8 points

Can't say present mam in class

Can't say present mam in class I am studying bsc nursing 1st sem, my stuttering started at 6th class... But i managed most of my stuttering till 12th... I can read without stuttering and i can say my ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

My habit is to say “I’m…”, for some reason my name is the only word I struggle with with that initial letter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

Any time I have to introduce myself I stutter on my name. Can be frustrating but it also helps me get it out of the way quickly. Other than that it seems to happen at pretty random times...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesCycles & RandomnessBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

Yup it’s the worst especially the first letter of my name is one I regularly block on. At Starbucks I’m called Marc because I don’t struggle with the letter M 😉...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
3 points

Same here. I was going to start using my middle name but realized it wasn’t my particular first name that was hard - any first name would be hard....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
8 points

I always use “my name is” - I’m 57 and it usually works. But I’m still stressing before doing it 🙃...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
7 points

I used to say my name then spell it out, but I have a pretty short and easy to spell name lol. Maybe I'll give the 'my name is' option a go. Makes sense what your speech therapist says though, I can ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
18 points

I'm the same way! My speech therapist said it's because of the amount of unconscious pressure that surrounds answering that. There's no other option for a word replacement, and the conversation is sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
7 points

I’m the same way. I first try to start with “Yeah, my name is Cody” but if that isn’t working and I’m still struggling, I usually use another name like Matt or Mark. Something that I know I can say at...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 16, 2024
54 points

Can't say my name

Can't say my name I grew up with a bad stutter, finally getting speech therapy during my teens after the teasing got too much. While the therapy wasn't an immediate success, I took the lessons to hear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
13 points

I stutter and want a job (advice please)

I stutter and want a job (advice please) Hey, I am new here and would like to get some advise from PWS with a job or someone who can give me advice. Background: From the age of 5 I stutter, especiall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
1 points

If you can say Stevie fluently when alone then you can do it anytime, right? I tell myself this same logic on names or words that I might block on. Finally after many years, I have techniques that hel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
1 points

My name begins with a plosive constant, where the first sound of my name is formed by blocking airflow in the mouth and then releasing it, and I always have a terrible time saying it. Think of trying...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesFluency Techniques
postr/StutterDec 11, 2024
18 points

most heartwarming experience

most heartwarming experience i was in class and my new friend was also there since we share a good few classes together i’ve mentioned my stutter to her and talked about what helped specifically duri...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterDec 10, 2024
5 points

Developed something

Developed something For the 3 last years I cannot say the Letter R I’m telling you it doesn’t have to do anything with my stutter . But I don’t know if it connects it somehow . ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & Names