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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

Just don't make a spectacle out of it. I haven't read other comments but I know some people seem to recommend to have a serious talk about it, say how you feel about it, why it happens. If you do that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

I like to make it a joke. "So, I stutter. But its my one and only flaw." Usually gets a laugh or two and then we move on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
16 points

My stutter got worse, can't accept it

My stutter got worse, can't accept it Hello, how you guys managed to accept your stutter and come out with it ? I work at the International school (Nord-Anglia), not a teacher, but i still have to ta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

Dear u/dhavalr786, normally I don't comment on posts. But I feel you.. It hurts, you feel so alone. I can make a whole paragraph ..no.. a book on how shitty it is. But please try and keep socializing...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Same. It was turning point in my life when I stopped caring so much and accepted it as part of me. Normal people don't react to your stutter. They react to how you react to your stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Apps to stop stuttering

Apps to stop stuttering Hey guys I wondered if any of you use apps to prevent from stuttering as much as you usually do. If you guys do please tell me about them I wanna try some out !...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
14 points

I understand, but this is not a good way to look at life by invalidating your feelings and hardships. Yes, there will always be people who have it worse, but it does not mean we can't wish for a bette...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
1 points

Oh believe me, stuttering is the least of my imperfect traits :) I'm very imperfect and I'm fully ok with it. I'm actually kind of proud of it since it defines who I am and I really like myself ;)...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
0 points

First of you have to be grateful for what you have dud. Count your blessings, I mean like literally write them down and then come back to this post and reflect. You are better of than most people in t...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
2 points

Why are you worried about talking? People are going to learn you stutter regardless, and don’t you want to participate in class? I’ve got a moderate stutter and I love participating in class. I don’t ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
5 points

Current research shows that stuttering is both neurological and hereditary. In short, it's just how our brains are wired; there's a glitch between thinking the thought and saying the thought, and then...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsNeurological & BrainIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2020
2 points

Thank you for reaching out, i agree i spent 75 percent of my time in my head analyzing every possible outcome of a situation is definitely pointless to be doing that and definitely harms my our speec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2020
1 points

I'm a person who stutters as well and we can all agree that we're our harshest critics in my personal experience. We always tend spend time in the minds of other people instead of our own and focus o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2020
3 points

In the same boat, my man. Stress, fatigue and ill preparation are my catalysts. But life is way too short to really give a shit. You're right, not caring as much does help. And you make a point ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
10 points

Some days can be better than others. It's always good to remember you start again fresh tomorrow. Try and push yourself to speak, get out of your comfort zone, and be proud of yourself for facing your...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
2 points

get comfortable and build self-esteem. be like, “yeah im all that” but dont be a dick. just be cool and chill. maybe thatll help you not stutter as much?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
3 points

Mindfulness (observing with detachment) and cognitive behavioral therapy (restructuring your assumptions and thought patterns) helped me to accept what's happening, not make it into a thing that snowb...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingTherapy ExperiencesAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 28, 2020
6 points

Psychogenic stuttering flared up

Psychogenic stuttering flared up My stuttering seems tied to stress and activities that carry a heavy cognitive load. I probably have a learning disorder, so it happens that my brain gets overworked w...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
3 points

It’s totally true. There are far worse things that could affect someone than a stutter. Thanks!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
3 points

Well, you see... >thinking that I could potentially mess up It doesn't matter whether you mess up or not. The real challenge you have ahead of you is actually getting to the point where you might...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride