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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
3 points

I’ve been thinking about bringing back my “Stuttering DND” I have a small story already prepped in Roll20. Hmmmmmm...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
9 points

I feel your pain my g. It's all good tho, you got learn to play it off. Especially with the jokes. When I get stuck, I incorporate the stutter into the joke and flip it. Works everything lol In rega...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
1 points

Great answer. There's also a factor of the gradual introduction of the stimulus you fear the most. It's called successive approximation to the goal. If you're deathly afraid of white rabbits, the firs...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
1 points

It was suggested that I join Toastmasters, International. It's a lunchtime group of other people working on their public speaking. It's not at all judgemental as everyone there has his own issues. I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2023
2 points

Yeah, I usually just use it for presentations so basically every now and then. My only concern is that I might never ‘get better’ if I always rely on the DAF and don’t try presenting without it...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Assistive DevicesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
1 points

Agree! Maybe try starting small by making eye contact with *yourself* in a mirror, while speaking with various repetitions and blocks. Then, while still looking in mirror, make phone calls, while do...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
2 points

For other people who stutter, if you also want to simulate Exposure Therapy (which is a form of psychotherapy) but without having a therapist yourself. Then self-therapy (according to [researchers](ht...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAdvice RequestsSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
3 points

+1 to starting small! I also recommend setting small but very clear goals before pushing yourself into situations. Sometimes the goal can just be showing up. Other times it can be asking a question y...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
9 points

Start small, don’t throw yourself into the fire. Approaching public speaking gradually is beneficial in a number of ways. You not only gain confidence by working your way into a situation but you also...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Advice RequestsHope & MotivationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterJun 2, 2023
10 points

Exposure therapy

Exposure therapy I'm seriously contemplating about putting myself in many public speaking situations as possible. I just need a little bit more courage and encouragement to carry through....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJun 2, 2023
15 points

Eye contact enemy #1

Eye contact enemy #1 It’s gotten so bad. I’m at such a low point I don’t know how to pull myself out of it. I can’t even look my girlfriend in the eyes when I talk. I hit a block and instantly close...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
2 points

I decided a year ago to put myself out there more. I can only speak for myself, and I am very conscious that other people have unfortunately made the same decision as me and gone on to have negative ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
4 points

I wish I had an answer. It does sound like you are now stuttering. Did anything happen recently that might have triggered it? If you have a diagnosissis of OCD do you currently have a psychologist/psy...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
1 points

I've already been doing exposure therapy without meds, and it didn't help. I've tried meds recently and they are finally helping....

Coping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
1 points

No, I received no help for my stuttering. My parents were abusive and at the age of 69, I began psychotherapy for anxiety and depression and my abusive childhood. was uncovered. Miraculously, dealing...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
2 points

It's called exposure therapy. Keen on doing it, especially with the help of a professional and you may go a long way...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2023
5 points

In my experience and opinion getting outside of your comfort zone and actively engaging in situations which are uncomfortable speech wise and ultimately overcoming your fear is the only way to really ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2023
6 points

Ease into it. Don’t just throw yourself into an involved speaking situation, it’ll just make you lose hope very quickly. But I highly recommend you get a job that does push you out of your comfort zon...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
6 points

I learned a technique called 'soft touch' or something like that. It's like really softly touching your lips when saying the letter you want to say. I'm sure there are video's about it on yt. That rea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
1 points

I know the feeling. I will say there is nothing external locking your vocal cords other than you. The reason it feels like you can't is because toy are still prioritizing not stuttering over getting o...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureBlocks & Stoppages