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postr/StutterDec 25, 2024
12 points

Did I handle it wrong?

Did I handle it wrong? Okay so this happenend 4 months ago. I deal with a shit ton of people daily. Guy, 18-20 looking, came up to compliment my necklace. It seemed whole heartedly sweet with no ill i...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & NamesValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterDec 23, 2024
6 points

Worried about job I've accepted

Worried about job I've accepted Recently graduated from college and found a job in my field (not an ideal one, but apparently the economy is shit now so I took what I can get). I start in a week. It w...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightFeared Words & Names+2 more
postr/StutterDec 22, 2024
8 points

Embarrassing moment (stutter w/dyslexia - GREAT combo! NOT!)

Embarrassing moment (stutter w/dyslexia - GREAT combo! NOT!) So... been going to this local brewery for past couple years. Am a regular of sorts. Was there on fri eve... was very busy plus i was me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2024
1 points

Yup, when I order anything I use a name everytime. I cannot for the life of me say my own name and actively avoid making friends because of it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2024
7 points

Yea I’ve held myself back from ALOT of opportunities in life including jobs because I stutter or get blocked when saying my name it is really embarrassing and I’m trying to deal with it but it truly i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 21, 2024
3 points

I need some advice.

I need some advice. So i have been stuttering ever since i could remember, it has impacted my life heavily but still i didnt mind it that much but now as an new adult about to turn 19 i have to deal w...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesFeared Words & Names+2 more
postr/StutterDec 21, 2024
7 points

Do you suggest I go on this trip?

Do you suggest I go on this trip? It's a week-long trip with my class. And I realized there would be a lot of conversation circles, every hour. And I don't want to embarrass myself and stutter in fro...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterDec 20, 2024
18 points

Guy told me my stutter is the cause of my dating life

Guy told me my stutter is the cause of my dating life Hello everyone. A guy I knew was asking about my dating life. I’m 24 , never really had a date and I do approach. He told me I was good looking a...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
1 points

💯 relate.. It wild how just saying your name can be a struggle and then that stupid ass question comes up " you don't know your own name?" It is what it is.. just got 2 keep pushing through like w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 19, 2024
8 points

How do I bring up my speech impediment during a job interview?

How do I bring up my speech impediment during a job interview? I don't have a stutter (though I do stutter sometimes), but I have a rare speech impediment (Apraxia of Speech) and am also prone to free...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
1 points

I relate. I had something similar happen to me just before I got onto the airplane. She asked for my first and last name before scanning the ticket so I nervously prepared to give it to her but of cou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
1 points

I have the same problem. Sometimes saying it with a glotal stop infront (The "sound" used in British english in replacement of t's. You just have to pull your tongue back to block airflow for a moment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesFluency Techniques
postr/StutterDec 19, 2024
20 points

How to flirt with a girl if you stutter?

How to flirt with a girl if you stutter? I'm 21 years old and I stutter, I stutter a lot, blocking out words and sometimes prolonging them, when I'm very nervous I can't speak because I hold my breath...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
postr/StutterDec 19, 2024
8 points

I have huge trouble when saying words starting with vowel sounds (aeiou) any tips?

I have huge trouble when saying words starting with vowel sounds (aeiou) any tips? I have a speech in front of whole school tomorrow (thats a whole different story). So i need this quick. Funny thing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
3 points

Beautifully written. I experienced the same thing today when going to pick up my prescription at the pharmacy — which ironically enough, if I don’t have, I end up stuttering more. Sitting in the dri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

i feel u man, when someone asks me for my name or age i stutter so bad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
4 points

This is me in a nutshell. I block on words beginning with certain letters, too, mainly C and K words. I also have "good" days and "not so good" days. I remember being proud of not stuttering at all d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
3 points

Saying your name fluently is one of the great barriers most stutters face. I really hate when I’m in a group setting and someone says for everyone to introduce themselves. Totally feel like I’m being ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

I always say, ‘I stammer and I experience word blocks so it takes me a while to say my name’ whenever I’m asked. They usually go ‘that’s fine’, then I proceed to spell it out and they pronounce it and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
6 points

I can't either, in fact most people who stutter this is one of the toughest parts of speech. I'm sure people have theories why. Worst for me is when I do manage to get my name out and don't stutter. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment