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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
2 points

I respect this, as I hold similar views. Clearly every stutterer is different (e.g. varying levels of severity, trouble saying different sounds, etc.), but I truly believe that every stutterer can imp...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
1 points

Proud of you! I hope the interviewer picked up (at least a little), that what you just did there took a lot of work, and respects that. I'm sure it's fine and you'll soon have the illustrious privile...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
2 points

I've found with my stutter that it is a lot like working out at the gym. If I don't motivate myself every day to step out of my safe places and try, that just like my puny muscles that haven't seen a ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
1 points

Ok so I am the third stutterer here with fighting parents. I remember my young self fearing to become my dad. Everything about him revolted me. He was a drunk and the worst husband. I wept for my moth...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
2 points

" Working hard makes me feel better about myself, even when progress is almost invisible" Well said. When I first decided to speak up in class, I gave myself a quota of making three in class comments...

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Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
4 points

I found this very motivating. Working hard makes me feel better about myself, even when progress is almost invisible, as opposed to doing nothing at all. Thanks and good luck!...

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postr/StutterMay 6, 2019
24 points

To friends.

To friends. This is a respond post to one of the inspiring topic where the author had wrote: "I think anyone can overcome their stutter if they work hard enough". I want to start by saying: I **know*...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2019
1 points

I cried a lot when I was younger but I went through the same thought process your going through now. Everyone has their flaws. Now I care much less about it and it has meant I have done things that I ...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2019
1 points

Making yourself work somewhere where you have to talk to people is the best thing for your speech. When I was your age I worked in food service too and at the very least it helped me get comfortable w...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2019
1 points

You were brave enough to show up and go through with the interview. Be proud of that. I hope you get the job, but don't be surprised if you don't. It may take several interviews before you get one whe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2019
3 points

If you don’t get the job, something’s wrong. Yes, you fumbled for a couple seconds, but you probably talked more fluently after that than most fluent people. You’re clearly fit for the job, as shown b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2019
1 points

I think you might be being too harsh on yourself. People can be a lot more understanding of people with issues communicating than you think. The older I get the more I realize a lot of our embarrassme...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMay 3, 2019
7 points

Today brought hope.

Today brought hope. Hello r/stutter, Today something major happened to me and to most it would be a very minor thing, but to me it was huge. I went to a banquet held for my Aunt’s school district. T...

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commentr/StutterMay 3, 2019
1 points

You just need to become apathetic, nothing bothers you or shake you mentally. >fear of socializing and talking to people. I know your feelings, fear of being rejected, but I think at some point, ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2019
1 points

we always think speech is the biggest issue we have.. just let it go ... dont dwell on speech and move forward... if you get blocked. you will get another chance. life is precious ... learn to live wi...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
5 points

Ohh lord, every word you wrote sounded like me 7 years ago before I found my girlfriend. After that everything clicked into place. Chin up mate...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
3 points

I feel everything you are going through. I do a good job at hiding it and I have literally walked off a presentation because I just couldn't do it. However, I just wanna say keep on going, you have no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
5 points

This doesn't cover your whole points, but stutter will only affect you socially if you allow it too. So what if you stutter when you meet a new person or when presenting or answering a question in cla...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
1 points

perhaps becoming less reliant on social interaction can help you. i find that learning self reliance skills and spending time out in the wild gives me a much needed break from communication, while als...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
2 points

Hey man I know exactly how you feel. My stutter has also isolated me quite a lot, I guess I am fortunate in that I don't mind spending time alone. Playing games ,music and reading are things i can do ...

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