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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2021
1 points

People are saying "just go for it" but in my opinion what you should do is just prepare your first words which you are gonna say and then go with the flow. Whats very important for you is to talk sl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2021
10 points

This literally happened yesterday: I play on a high level international sports team and we had a day where we went into the community and met some local youth teams and were there to take pictures. I...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2021
3 points

As far as presentations…Not really. At least not in my experience after elementary school. It’s part of the grade. I had to learn to calm myself and keep my speech under control (practicing infront of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
3 points

Hey OP, Call center manager here. I started on the front-lines answering calls, and worked my way up. I've been in the industry for roughly 15 years. No sugar coating it, it sucked. It sucked a LOT. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
5 points

Did your employers know you stutter? Truly, 99 out of a 100 people (likely more) have sympathy for that. I stutter at times during presentations as well, particularly if it's people I don't know but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2021
1 points

I think words 4 thru 6 are really important here. What's that phrase, the first step of being good at something is sucking at something?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2021
2 points

Hey, I just had the thought that maybe you could text a few family members, friends, friends of friends, or really anyone in the community, and ask them if they will help you practice speaking. Ask th...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2021
2 points

Try sitting in the first row/volunteer to introduce yourself first. Giving less time to overthink a certain situation makes you less likely to stutter. I have been in numerous such situations where I ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2021
4 points

I was taught that stuttering is a learned behavior, as is fluency. To speak more broadly, speech is a learned behavior / skill. When I received speech therapy to become fluent, the approach they took...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
12 points

Drink some chamomile tea before, helps with relaxation, and please make sure to disclose your stutter at the very beginning. Frame your stutter as a tool that has helped you gain valuable and attrac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2021
6 points

I was a waiter for almost a year in my twenties. The only advice I have is to find a script that you can stick to. It helped me to say the same things every time I sat a table. The more you do it the ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2021
1 points

Yup, when I was a kid i always used to ask something to my teacher with a friend, you know just for safety in case I f up and I never did! Idk if it's phycological or something else but yea, even whil...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

I interviewed for my lifelong career about 5 months ago. Prior to the interview I did breathing exercises to help calm my nerves. During the interview When I was asked a question I would take my time ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

Just explain at the beginning that you have a stutter and to bear with. Any employer that won't give you the time of day isn't worth your labour anyways! My stutter actually helped me secure a job as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
1 points

Try to prepare for your interview more then thinking about your stutter. There's a high chance other person wouldn't notice it or if he/she does notices it then maybe they would just give you priority...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
2 points

Arrive early. Sit, wait patiently, and take long breaths. Familiarize yourself with the office surrounding. Initiate small inconsequential talk with the staff ("how many people are they interviewin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
1 points

I hope you do ok. Maybe practice this intro with your headphones on with full volume. This thing at least helped me to say my name properly lol...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

Yeah. I go to a military high school and for protocol (attendance) we have to say “cadet (last name) on board sir or ma’am” Fucking terrifying since I didn’t go last year. Thinking of transferring but...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2021
1 points

I find that with much practice and really knowing the material I can confidently present anything. So my advice is too practice practice and more practice until it gets boring because you know it all ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2021
2 points

Thankfully it’s not going to be in front of a whole class, only 2 assessors. I’m going to try keeping the order and flow of my presentation simple and memorise what has to be said so there’s a less of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic Life