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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
2 points

Let me ask you this.. what do you think of yourself? You’ve touched on what everyone else thought of you; parents, family, teachers, etc but what do you think of yourself? Truly answer that. At the e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterNov 10, 2018
0 points

I have a speech disorder

I have a speech disorder I have a speech disability and it made my life miserable no one can understand me and my grandma think I'm acting she said this to me before that he's acting and he's trying t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
2 points

I think the big thing I need to emphasize in this is. It’s a huge part of me, but it is not the ONLY part of me by far. I have a lot of qualities that I love and sometimes don’t love, and this is one ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
1 points

Interesting perspective, I try not to identify with stuttering. E.g. I'm not a stutterer, I'm a person who sometimes stutters. I have many other positive qualities and stuttering is only a small par...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
2 points

I’m attached to it because my stutter is part of who I am. I’ve never EVER not had a stutter or been a stutterer. I’ve learned to love my stutter, and that being taken away from me is scary. Just beca...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
2 points

It seems other people don't. :P I was angry many times when someone "challenges" my self-image as a stutterer. Afterwards it was always a scary experience, because I'd never thought that I'm attached ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
0 points

Sounds like an ego thing to me, like "I'm unique because of MY stuttering, that's my identity. You're not a stutterer, stop pretending that you are one and thus undermining my uniqueness and self-imag...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

Yes, I’m a Regional Director making $130k a year. I sit in weekly round table meetings (that always do the dreaded name introductions) and have to present frequently. I would say my stutter is mild to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2018
8 points

Yes! I don't know if it's because of the stutter or if it's because I'm weird....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Writing a college essay about stuttering, the effects it has had on my life, and things I've accomplished/learned with a stutter.

Writing a college essay about stuttering, the effects it has had on my life, and things I've accomplished/learned with a stutter. [deleted]...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

No, probably because of my stammer I would rarely approach a woman outright. I had much better success in meeting women through groups, school, or other activities. Meeting girls at a bar through a ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
2 points

I'd rather remain a male with a stutter than take transitioning meds....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 4, 2018
20 points

Maybe I have something to teach younger people with stutter. Don't come up with strategies to stutter less, like to pronounce letters differently. It will only make it harder to communicate.

Maybe I have something to teach younger people with stutter. Don't come up with strategies to stutter less, like to pronounce letters differently. It will only make it harder to communicate. I don't l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2018
5 points

I mean, my wife and I make close to 100k and that's plenty for us two. You're gonna be fine...it seems like the older I got, the less ppl cared. I think its cuz the more ppl we meet, the more the idea...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2018
11 points

yes! i am a bona fide, real-deal stutterer, and i make about 120k/year as a research scientist. people are very professional when i stutter and just act as if it's normal. i have to give a lot of pres...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2018
4 points

Ya they make it feel like it's not a handicap at all but just a personality trait like a lisp or something....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterNov 1, 2018
8 points

Stuttering and dating as a man

Stuttering and dating as a man For us guys here, have you ever been the type to make the first move in regards to people you're attracted to? We all know how hard it is to approach someone anyway, but...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
4 points

My brother "no longer stutters". That's what he tells everyone. He "cured" his stutter. He can even manage fluency in conversation. But he employs so many tricks and workarounds and loopholes that it'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2018
5 points

It's good to vent and share your frustrations - that's one of the many joys of the modern internet. Another such joy is online communities like this Stuttering forum. I went through something simila...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterOct 29, 2018
2 points

Do you admit to people that you stutter

Do you admit to people that you stutter Just curious, do you admit to people that you stutter?I have stutter for more than ten years now, although I’m fine with it and most people seem to know I have ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more