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postr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
12 points

why don't I stutter when I read or talk to myself?

why don't I stutter when I read or talk to myself? Today I decided to read out loud. It helped me a lot to understand what I read and, above all, I realized that I don't stutter. In my case, I only st...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
2 points

Ok. So real talk here. As a fellow stutterer, did I sleep with escorts? Yes plenty in my 20's. I also got some free action one night stands etc but not all the time as I struggled in the bar / club / ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2025
2 points

Dude, you put in the work on yourself and it sounds like it paid off in spades! As a speech therapist who used to have a pretty severe stutter, I love hearing from others about what they thought was t...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2025
2 points

So if I were you, I would find a way to stop relying on the boosters because it will always require you to keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Like I said, I still rely on boosters, but on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2025
1 points

Not sure if this will help. but here’s what worked for me—I started paying attention to what triggered my stuttering: What is the common denominator in stutter triggers? For example, we might speak f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
3 points

Thx! I mean at the bare minimum, i just realized last night... NO ONE KNOWS what is happening in my head as i have a block! The MENTAL GYMNASTICS i go through, struggling to find a path forward aro...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

Mine only happens when im asking something usually, especially asking for something. If im about to stutter i have to reword the sentence n sound like an idiot lol dude it is the weirdest thing. Talki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
0 points

The word “choosing” is not the most accurate. We have chosen to block in the same way someone “chooses” a harmful romantic partner to cope with something else unbearable. The academic research is p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
3 points

As someone who struggled to say my name for decades, realizing *why* has been a major help. If you have hard, silent blocks and have developed a habit of word switching or avoiding, any unavoidable w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
1 points

As someone who struggled to say my name for decades, realizing *why* has been a major help. If you have hard, silent blocks and have developed a habit of word switching or avoiding, any unavoidable w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

Been there, done that. Most of the time, first name is enough. Don't push yourself with the whole name if it's not necessary. So that takes away half of the problem. Now, your first name for sure has ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
1 points

I find the less I’m thinking about not stuttering the less I do. It’s what we do trying not to stutter that makes us stutter, we play a nasty trick on ourselves....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

Yes, being a student at college and university can be quite challenging as a stutterer because people are often asked to speak up. I was constantly praying that the teacher wouldn’t ask me anything or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

So, regarding overcoming fears and needs that drag us down, make it a strength. I struggled with this all my life, but after going through HELL, I just got tired of it and I’m like “what’s the point o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

>he kept pushing me to be fluent which honestly was terrible. I'm so sorry. I've known people like that and it's definitely no fun. >once you yourself remove the barrier of ‘stutter’ between you and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

I agree with you. Learned blocks is another manifestation of stuttering. Somehow PWS noticed that delaying uttering words makes easy perception on the audience. Attempts to interrupt the blocks transf...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/Stutter_remissionJan 28, 2025
1 points

Most stutterers do not stutter when speaking alone. Could this suggest that speech execution has been maladaptively conditioned in the presence of certain individuals? What are the strengths and challenges of this assertion?

Most stutterers do not stutter when speaking alone. Could this suggest that speech execution has been maladaptively conditioned in the presence of certain individuals? What are the strengths and chall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

I used to think the same, that blocking was the automatic behavior, but when I tried to “unblock” and realized I could, and that beneath there is a repetitive stutter! I don’t know how to explain how ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

That is interesting. I tend to mask when on first/second dates and in customer facing jobs. It's like I'm playing the role of a charming charismatic person, not me, so I don't really mind what they th...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

The less you think about stuttering, the less you will stutter. Do what you can to achieve this....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring