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postr/StutterJun 4, 2022
16 points

people don't hear me and im asked to repeat.

people don't hear me and im asked to repeat. Hi, i posted on this sub before about a problem of mine, when i talk people don't hear me and im asked to repeat. Some of y'all said if you can ask a close...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
3 points

I don’t mention it, they seem super excited to interview me based off of my resume and then when I interview they’re significantly less excited...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 4, 2022
22 points

Stutter/server job

Stutter/server job Hi! I have about a total of 5 years of customer service experience/ team leadership experience, which you think would be more than enough to qualify me for a server job, but for som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

Is her father's perception of you solely based on your stutter? I know how it feels man, at my school I just feel people think I am dumb, or just shy due to my stutter :,)...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

I don't know if it looks vulnerable or just weak and stupid, honestly. Plus, even if I try to act nonchalant, I always turn red which makes me even more embarrassed. I'm not actually shy, but my stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

How severe is your stutter? Do you struggle with general conversations, or just with the "being charming" part?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
3 points

She doesn't make fun of me, it's just hard for me to speak and I usually just give up or don't want to. I hate looking stupid in front of her even if she doesn't really mind it...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 3, 2022
18 points

Talking to girls

Talking to girls Is it okay to try to pursue a relationship with a girl without talking to her irl? Is that just setting myself up for failure? I'm really friendly over email, but in person I avoid h...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

bruh, same thing happened with me, we moved in a new city so i was the new kid of the class and during the first day my class teacher asked my name and i dont know how, but i think i said my name prop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
9 points

My stutter usually varies with my anxiety levels. So the best thing I try to do is deep breathing exercises in a secluded environment, like a cubicle (if it has a spray). And I just try not to think a...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 2, 2022
13 points

Stutter and jobs

Stutter and jobs I'm getting a summer job soon and it's gonna be my first real job so I'm very nervous about it. It’s a fear of mine to talk to new people because of my stutter, I just wanted to get t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJun 2, 2022
6 points

Speech problem

Speech problem Hello to all! I am writing this because I want to see if somebody has same problem as I have. I'm 21yo guy who has stuttering speech problem in some aspects of life. For example - in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterJun 2, 2022
19 points

This has been happened with most of you, I need your suggestions or experience

This has been happened with most of you, I need your suggestions or experience I'm sure that many of you have good and bad stutter days. Sometimes or days you spoke very good but somedays are really b...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
3 points

I 100% agree with excitement causing me to stutter. I find I have to take a moment to breathe and chill out ....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
1 points

Maybe it is cluttering, like someone said above. It’s common with people that have adhd, and affects someone’s ability to organize their thoughts into words. Also, in presentation it’s fine, but I t...

Speech & StutteringSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
4 points

I think maybe it’s because you feel like you don’t have permission to talk about someone else, or quote a movie, etc. Because maybe you grew up feeling like it was rude to talk about other people. Or ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
1 points

My name starts with M too! And I'll start college soon as well. I really am scared of what's gonna happen...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
6 points

From the US, I really depends, I've had a lot of people at coffee shops, stores, and friends of friends laugh at my stutter. It's usually because they think I've forgotten what I have to say. Thoug...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
1 points

Partly by waiting for the block to dissipate before talking, pushing through it just makes everything worse. I went there for months, there were a lot of techniques for blocks but a large part of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2022
8 points

I am from a Latin American country and I often felt isolated because I literally did not know anyone else who stuttered and there was no stuttering association. I found myself being encountered by rud...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation