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commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
1 points

Its completely unconscious, when I was younger I would tense my neck really tight and it would make my head go back and forth. It was just me trying my best to get the word out. As Ive got older, I ha...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

It’s so hard to talk about something that other people cannot understand. The anxiety of ordering or asking for help, and the shame of fucking up a simple sentence. The best thing that has got me th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

Everything you said is right, I love the way you put that. It sounds a lot like if I were talking to Jordan Peterson haha. With that said, so much of what you said is right when it comes from an alr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
18 points

What stuttering programs helped you overcome your stutter?

What stuttering programs helped you overcome your stutter? I am interested in investing in a stuttering program that actually helps overcome stuttering. When finances are fine on my side in the future...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
7 points

This is so bizarrely true. I have a hard time with words that start with “st” and “sp” so just accepting that I’m gonna have to break down the sounds and maybe seems a little weird helps me to press t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
15 points

Ironically, accepting that there will be fuckups relieves some of the pressure which reduces stress which in turn reduces stuttering....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

You know what.. I have a frnd who always helps me by saying.. 'Everyone have some imperfection either physically or mentally.. U have just stutter.. Other have alot of other issues which are more diff...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

Its not overthinking.. Start accepting yourself with that stutter.. Love your stutter.. Even though others say like that.. Think your unique that way.. All the lockdown and covid made me conclude that...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterMay 6, 2021
45 points

This subreddit has helped my confidence so much.

This subreddit has helped my confidence so much. I only started looking at this subreddit regularly 2 weeks ago and it already has made me more confident. I felt so ashamed of my stutter and embarrass...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

I totally understand you! the problem here is that I'm really negative but I'm ok with it. But it's great to see someone is doing better than me. Cheers and thanks for commenting...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
3 points

If someone is making effort to accommodate your stutter, I'd say they're trying to accommodate it and they have good intentions. I understand that it might seem like they're pitying you, and it can hu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
3 points

Just treat him like a normal dude. We're just like anybody else, we just suck at talking. Also don't cut him off. Sometimes we'll get stuck on a word but the timing is so on point that it'll seem like...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
3 points

I can confirm that what you said is true. Ive been thinking and taking action in a similar way for about 5 months now, and the result has been amazing, I have made progress in these past 5 month regar...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
3 points

Thank you for this post. I’ve been prescribed benzodiazepines as well, and yes, my stuttering reduced. Eventually, I acclimated to that dose and it didn’t have a positive affect on my speech anymore...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Harmful Med OutcomesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
9 points

wow, this hit home, so much so that I relate to everything you typed, esp. about exposing your vulnerability, and finding meaningful connections with other human beings. I listen to other people with...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
1 points

I'm sorry, i'm against those pills. I think it depends on the will you have to improve and change, that's better than a miraculous pill....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 5, 2021
95 points

Mindset(s) that saved my social life, having a severe on and off stutter.

Mindset(s) that saved my social life, having a severe on and off stutter. How I fixed my social life with a severe (on and off) stutter. I'm writing this today because I know the pain. I know the pa...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2021
1 points

Glad you overcame it, I don't understand why it is legal to even be able to prescribe such addictive drugs. I personally have never taken any medications except a paracetamol once every 6 months or s...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
1 points

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it'll happen again just like you'll mess up during a performance if you move on to perform. I'm 35 and pretty sure I still stutter on a day to day basis, and I h...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2021
2 points

I would like to nudge you, respectfully, toward self acceptance. It is, of course, SELF acceptance, so that's about all I can do. But once you do get there all that energy you use to help hide it can ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift