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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

I also have this, its like people ignore what I say and then just repeat asking the same question and I basically think, quietly: if they listened at least a bit, they would know the answer, now (in m...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
3 points

No worries I know how it feels .. we are fucking trying hard to be normal and end up with shit like these .. we can't even do anything from our side and experiences like these make us question our exi...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
3 points

I sympathize with your predicament. Unfortunately, there will be people who discriminate against us because of our stutter. It sucks to accept, but it's life. But please take my advice from a 40 some...

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postr/StutterJun 22, 2025
16 points

Tired of feelin' like I'm trapped in my damn mind

Tired of feelin' like I'm trapped in my damn mind I've lived with a stutter my whole life, and I’ve had tough periods and others where I was almost used to it — but lately, it’s getting worse. I mak...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
2 points

yeahh i get it, for me its so difficult too to be confident. but well,i guess we are destined to be unhappy, its nothing u can control...

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postr/StutterJun 20, 2025
5 points

Career advice for a stutterer.

Career advice for a stutterer. Hello, people of Reddit.   I (34m) am searching for any resources/advice/whatever regarding finding work as someone who stutters.   A little background:   I have ...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2025
5 points

It's painful reading that because I've been through the same thing and can feel the pain but know that you are blowing it out of proportion and even with a bad stutter no who witnesses you stuttering ...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2025
4 points

Your outlook on the situation is your biggest problem. Not your stutter. And this isn't unique. As we live with our stutter, we start forming biases. We make some pretty bold assumptions about others...

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postr/StutterJun 18, 2025
6 points

I manipulated my stuttering

I manipulated my stuttering I'm 24M and I have had stuttering since my childhood. It's kind of repetition. around a month ago I wanted to apply a method that a speech therapist told me to do so many y...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2025
1 points

>The stuttering is just the surface level issue. Waking up perfectly fluent tomorrow wouldn't solve this issue. I believe for many people, it would solve a lot of the issues over time. You could hold...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
5 points

32 year old virgin here. It doesn't get better unless you do something. The universe won't feel sorry for you. Approach someone. (I should follow my own advice but lol no)...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
5 points

Everyone missing the point here. The stuttering is just the surface level issue. Waking up perfectly fluent tomorrow wouldn't solve this issue. It's the decades of suppressed social skills and emotion...

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postr/StutterJun 16, 2025
12 points

Let me open up about something.

Let me open up about something. I believe i will never get a girlfriend and i will die alone bcs i think am unable to build an emotional connection to the point of dating. This is all bcs of my stutte...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
7 points

Hey man, I don't really have any advice for you but I just wanted to say having all these problems and illnesses such as anxiety, depression, etc. And on top of that a stutter, most people would drift...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
2 points

I have no option without suicide . Living in a third world country, aging father , poor family , was a good student but adhd ruined everything. Struggle to even say my own name. it's my last year . I...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
5 points

Hard to go back and remember it all when I was younger but my most recent one a few years back may be my worst if not one of them. I was starting sales, went to shake the ladies hand, tried to say my...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
1 points

I can understand your situation. you are stuck in a deadlock where social media/groups are not helping you with solution & your daily experience making stuttering worse. I suggest you to focus on t...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
1 points

I don't see what examples/answers here do not fit my definition that stuttering is likely the same for everyone but their feelings, fears, doubts, etc in a given moment in a given situation and so on ...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2025
0 points

Stop being weak and acting like a victim. Even God is not unanimous, so live your life, people will always think what they want no matter what you do...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2025
1 points

Since when if a stutterer says he/she is thick & tired of stuttering is an acting like a victim? Seems like you forget we are humans one is volunarable and one isn't and maybe someone is sloppy just l...

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