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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2024
25 points

Yes, absolutely. And I promise this is true for nearly every person who has a stutter. I have a moderate stutter that turns severe during anxiety-inducing moments. I let interviewers know beforehand...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
0 points

I like others make my stutter know at the beginning of the interview to ease my nerves and let the interviewer be prepared ahead of time. Don't give up. It may not necessarily be your stutter. Most j...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
1 points

when I am meeting new people or interviewing, I like to start the conversation by addressing my stutter almost immediately. (I know people with disabilities shouldn’t have to do this, but in my experi...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
1 points

Same but mine starts with an I. If it’s a situation where I need to use my actual name I disclose my stutter either before or after I say my name and just accept my name isn’t going to come out smooth...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
2 points

When i couldnt say my name, i said may catchphrase "i am a stutterer and i cant say may name, but if u want i can spell it". Was kind of hard to bring up the courage at first, but i got used to it. An...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
5 points

I actually like it when other people acknowledge my stutter. It really does put me at ease. I would've appreciated that nurse....

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
7 points

just owning it and self disclosing during introductions helps me!! that way I just get it out in the open and I dread it less. sometimes I even joke about it, like "hi my name is ____ and in case you ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
3 points

Best thing you can do is ask. When I was younger, I hated when people would finish it for me. Now that I’m older, I love it when people get what I’m saying by finishing my word - because that means I ...

Social & Relationships
Listener ReactionsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
21 points

“DID YOU FORGET YOUR NAME??? HAHAHAHA” Always fucking hated hearing that one. Yeah definitely perks me up - making me very aware, self conscious, embarrassed. I think the phlebotomist in your situa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

sometimes if its close friends I will ask for them so fill in my words of I am stuggling real bad, like the word "monopoly"...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
12 points

Taking a deep breath and speaking on the release can help me a lot at times. Telling people I am having a conversation with that I have a stammer. In cases where it makes sense I occasionally say a ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
9 points

“You have a stutter? No you don’t! Why didn’t you stutter In this conversation “ are you my speech pathologist? No?! I didn’t think so either love! 😁...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
3 points

Be honest about your stuttering but make sure to reiterate that you will not allow it to affect your job performance. I'll give you an example: Something affecting your performance would be not an...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
8 points

I hatee when people do this. Now when people say that to me I just reply, “Yeah I have a stutter” and then they feel bad lmao...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2024
7 points

Keep going, you got this! I just landed a job (to be fair, the position is a speech language pathologist so my interviewers are familiar with stuttering) and I think that starting my interviews by tel...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2024
2 points

Just talk to her while you’re both free and tell her it was cause of your stutter...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2024
1 points

Hey, it’s always good to be open about it rather than see it as something to be ashamed of. Just remember that it’s just one part of who you are and it shouldn’t have to be the only thing you are. You...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2024
3 points

Hi Hombre, most of the interviews that I have done recently are more conversation based than bullet point questions. It never hurts to ask so that you can prepare! You'll most likely be communicating ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2024
9 points

For real. I got a new boss. Only until about a month has passed working with him did I disclose my stutter to him. He was surprised and said that he would have never guessed. That’s something that I’v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2024
5 points

If I’m talking to someone who doesn’t know I stutter, when I start to block or think I’m gonna word switch, I’ll tell them that I stutter and they have to bear with me for a moment. I’ll confess some...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques