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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
2 points

I’m a female but I definitely have pee anxiety. Once a guy told me he thought it was hot to hear the sound of a girl peeing so I think that’s part of it :/ like what the hell. Lol...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
2 points

I know what you mean, but focusing on yourself does not mean avoiding people, and much less avoiding your feelings. Women have an ick on stuttering like others have an ick on brown haired men, men wit...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
3 points

Ik this sounds cliché and everyone says it , but being more positive and kind to yourself, affirmations in the mirror or whenever “I am confident, today will be a good day, I am so happy”. As well as ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
4 points

How I see this picture: 1. Guy has a trigger: "oh no, I will stutter - on a feared letter" 2. Then he perceives this trigger as TRUE, a fact, his true intentions, fearful 3. Then he reacts to this tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
2 points

> "If human interaction does not elicit fear and anxiety, your brain doesn't need to utilize compensatory behaviors" I agree absolutely! Did you know that positive triggers lead to an anticipation...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
1 points

Yes. Your stuttering is caused from emotional overwhelm habit you've created, always worrying what other people think and interfering with your voice. Start practicing focusing on what inspires you,...

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Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
1 points

I'd consider those compensatory behaviors as a maladaptive response to the trigger that is fear of speaking to individuals and groups. If you resolve that trigger, it's a domino effect from thereon ou...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 2, 2022
14 points

i need help

i need help Ok soo my speaking has improved a lot compare to before but i have noticed rhay i always have the urge and fear of stuttering while speaking. So i just wanted to know if theres anything i ...

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Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2022
1 points

>" If a stutterer is aware he/she is being observed, their performance on cognitive tasks declines" In my opinion, this is only one trigger, whereof we have 20+ triggers. Then the next question is...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
6 points

I understand why you're posting it here in this sub. But a lot of people regardless of whether they stutter or not are nervous about asking people out. And something a lot of young men don't realize...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterSep 30, 2022
26 points

Hi guys, I'm a little stutterer and I want to ask a friend out today

Hi guys, I'm a little stutterer and I want to ask a friend out today No big plans, I just want to have fun with her because I like her a lot, she's amazing. I've talked to her before and I haven't had...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
1 points

My dear friend I myself have a stutter, my childhood was vexatious children can be mean in school therefor I’ve always had trouble gathering confidence. I recall my father dropping me off at the bank ...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Can you start stuttering as an adult? I have stuttered a teeny tiny bit before, like rarely getting caught on a word. But tonight, I became aware that I stutter a teeny bit, got super stressed and hav...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Nice I tend to feel more comfortable/stutter less when Facetiming than talking on the phone. Maybe that's an explanation for why.Thanks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
3 points

Nice!! I have found with my stutter that when I’m in a nervous/stressful situation, I don’t stutter as much. I believe I’m more worried about the situation that I don’t pay much attention to my stutte...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

This might go against the grain of this sub, but I feel like this hurts people in the long run.At least for me, taking debate as a class in high school and being on the debate team really helped with ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Did that in my undergrad years. Now I am in grad school and do presentations infront of class, I disclose and nobody cares about it tbh. I get a lil bit stress during it and get chills but, it's reall...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
4 points

I have also noticed this with my stutter, and Iv have been slowly doing this technique too. Also I would consider my stutter “low to moderate” but there are some words that I absolutely cannot get out...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

She sounds supportive and I trust she will hear your content, ie that you know what you are presenting. The information that is…a couple of practice runs before, some deep breathing exercises (this ha...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 29, 2022
10 points

Tips for people who stutter - Advice on how to approach feared letters and anxiety-based situations

Tips for people who stutter - Advice on how to approach feared letters and anxiety-based situations Many triggers cause a stutter anticipation. A feared letter is one of these triggers, that our insti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
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