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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
3 points

For me I think it started when my dad started to physically abuse me when I was five. For some reason no one believed he abused me, and my mom and sister always took his side, which caused all stress ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your comment. Somehow I tend to feel disappointed that I could feel myself tense up and block up severely again when I need to answer a friendly question. I'm retired now and live on my ow...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentGenetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

I'm reading it, it applies to me. I don't stutter at home when I'm on my own. I stutter even when visiting my family but not while alone. Now I'm in a bad period, about a year. I'm retired. I didn't ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

I'm inclined to think that's in my case it's anxiety and discouraged feeling that I will stutter on the word I want to say. Then it feels like panic so substitute words would not help. When I'm at hom...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
4 points

Blocks make me judge myself more harshly—repetitions make me judge others more harshly....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 8, 2022
31 points

i just want to stop stuttering

i just want to stop stuttering everytime i go out or try to talk to someone new i end up stuttering and look like an idiot and i just end up doing everything to avoid talking to people im 16 right now...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
3 points

That price for some of us is truly priceless. Double edge sword. Not all can show who they are and what they are. Some hide in complete fear due to social restrictions. However the absolute is.... ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

This is accurate. I have mild OCD where once I stutter on something I didn’t before, ill start obsessing with it and then I’ll start doing the compulsion of saying that word out loud (or sometimes in...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

Hey man! Def relatable, been having the same frustrations one of these days. I think there is a simple explanation for it tho. A MMA fighter can visualise a fight, they can visualise the person they a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

Try not to feel bad what you did took a lot of courage! I used to be terrified to order especially at sit down restaurants when they would slowly go around the table and I knew with each persons order...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
12 points

The thing with stuttering is, most of the suffering is imagined in the stutterers mind than world could inflict on you. You remember every little humiliation, mockery, missed opportunities. People mig...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
27 points

I'm 35 years old (female) and have never had a relationship mostly because of my severe stutter. I was bullied hard because of my stutter and I simply cannot trust people to not laugh at me 🤷‍♀️ I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
0 points

For simplicity and clarity, I’ll adopt two terms: First of all “normal stuttering”– to refer to the occasional moments that everyone experiences where our planned words don’t or won’t come out at the ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversitySeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

When I was applying for mitigating circumstances at my university the university officer who was doing my assessment asked 'do you have autism' and I was like 'no I am here for my stammer' He just sai...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
6 points

**"how to find confidence and push yourself"** You could try this out to gain confidence: * Firstly, before you start speaking, make sure that you set this new mindset:you are not anticipating a stu...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterOct 7, 2022
7 points

Any good ways to tackle a stammer/stutter on your own without a speech therapist?

Any good ways to tackle a stammer/stutter on your own without a speech therapist? A little context and history to my speech is that I have a pretty mild stammer and word block on certain sounds, it wa...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 7, 2022
61 points

Pushed myself to order something out of my comfort zone in the drive through and failed miserably

Pushed myself to order something out of my comfort zone in the drive through and failed miserably i had a fine day at work talking to people without a single issue and my mom asked me to go to kfc to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
4 points

Situations where word substitution isn’t possible have always been nightmarish. Seems there’s often a situation in any sort of class / training where the instructor asks people to read text on a proj...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 7, 2022
11 points

how to find confidence and push yourself

how to find confidence and push yourself Hello all i hope you’re all doing great. I’ve come to a point in my life where i’m sick and tired of holding myself back from doing absolutely everything that...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
1 points

Everything you describe is very classic stuff for people with impactful dysfluency! My first tip is to let them know you speak with a stutter. Maybe even wear a name badge saying “I stutter”. Make ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages+1 more