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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
0 points

You can try to distinguish the stutter feeling from the excited/nervous/confused feeling. The advantage is that you can calmly breathe from the belly without associating 'chest breathing' and other fi...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
4 points

All I did was carefully listen to, AND DO the ideas from the podcast from Tim Mackesey (SLP from Atlanta, Georgia). The short version is to do the opposite of what you do automatically regarding your...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
4 points

To clarify, his information is outdated and comes from the fact that dysfluency was incorrectly categorized as a speech/language disorder, instead of an anxiety-type thing. If you are over the age o...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
4 points

I’m exactly like you right now OP, I’m 26 and I noticed my stutter coming back since 2020. I had a stutter when I was a kid but it was not as bad during my middle school or college days until 2020 it ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
5 points

The speaker is incorrect. If you can sometimes articulate the sound, it’s NOT an articulation issue. A stutter block is a function of having voluntary fear response (valsalva maneuver) which causes ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
5 points

Everything you are describing is a stutter or a secondary behavior. This type of impactful blocking dysfluency is ultimately more of an anxiety disorder - which is why even an SLP doesn’t understand ...

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postr/StutterOct 29, 2022
11 points

My stutter is affecting my everyday life

My stutter is affecting my everyday life Hello everyone :) I was looking for people to talk about this with, it's been tearing me apart. I've been stuttering ever since I was around 6 years old, i...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
5 points

Yeah that is super frustrating. Sounds like there could be an anxiety component to it too, now you're older and with more pressures like work, which is quite common and a psychologist could help with ...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
4 points

I had a slight stutter from about 7-11, it went away and came back when I was 18ish… it just happened randomly and has gotten worse, I’ve tried a few online courses and stuff with basically no success...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
8 points

Around my colleagues 95% of the time, but when I’m the only one there I can sometimes speak normally, but not usually....

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
11 points

Do you answer the phone around colleagues or by yourself? I've found when answering the phone by myself I'm a lot more confident and animated, but the pressure of others watching/listening to me cause...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
3 points

Yeah I totally get the extreme pounding heart beats, if I rehearse or not it normally ends up the same embarrassment, I think its worse as well by who's serving you, some people just seem to put y...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
12 points

I know exactly what you mean, but you have to stop rehearsing before approaching anyone. It is just making your anxiety worse. I used to do that, heck,I was even afraid. My heart used to beat so hard ...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
2 points

Same here. Can't tell you how many times I've needed to call a bank or credit card company to inquire about something benign like getting a replacement card, and when I'm asked to verify my identity...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
3 points

Similar experience when i was doing intake for a procedure. Said I blocked/stuttered and it often made it difficult to communicate about certain atypical conditions that increased my anxiety when atte...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
34 points

I'm afraid it's part of living with a stutter, I find the anxiety way more worse though, just going to the shop knowing I'll have to ask for a specific item is a nightmare, I play it out in my head...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
6 points

The fear of worrying starts when u are fully legal i mean 18 plus ... The age starts where u get more responsibility and have to communicate interaction with more strangers...at this point u start to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
2 points

Had a medical procedure where I needed to lay almost completely still for 8 hours in hospital “group” recovery room. Nurse forgot to give me call button, and I kept blocking while trying to get her a...

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postr/StutterOct 27, 2022
34 points

Do you ever have such a terrible interaction with someone it just fucks you up

Do you ever have such a terrible interaction with someone it just fucks you up Whole day is fucked and you just feel like crawling in a hole and disappearing...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
2 points

Absolutely! Thanks, i want to fly in military for 5 years first and after that to commercial. Military is the one im more nervous about because if you make a mistake it could be your last. But im sure...

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