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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
1 points

I think PWS develop all sorts of subtle ways to hide their attempts to avoid eye contact. But it could be unrelated?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
2 points

Yo I was terrified too. I was cheeseing 😁 so hard during the preparations for the wedding, people thought I was just sooo happy. No, that was just a nervous smile to mask how I really felt on the in...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

I will think about it, it's cause I really doesn't know what to do if they re really becoming disconfortable because of me, but that's is nice to hear...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
2 points

I'm not doubting that the stutter is the reason. But sometimes it isn't *exactly* the stutter. It could be they feel uncomfortable with the stutter. They don't know how to behave. Should they finish y...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

I discussed with my officiant altering anything I said to what was comfortable to me. It was only a few small changes, but that can make a world of difference. Just a suggestion! Also, No one is perf...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
2 points

I think that, first of all, you need to try to remember that this is your wedding and, presumably, all those people in the audience are there because you’re important to them and all of them know you ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPropositionality & WeightHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

I would guess that the majority of people have difficulty with public speaking. It may not be because of stuttering, but nearly everyone is frightened of it. I don't know what to say man, you're gett...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
postr/StutterNov 13, 2022
19 points

Hey guys need some help or feedback for my upcoming wedding

Hey guys need some help or feedback for my upcoming wedding Soo as the tittle says, I’m getting married this 20th of November and I’m terrified. I have stuttered as I can recall in my earliest mem...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

If your dysfluency instantly disappears when people disappear, don’t you think it’s a type of social anxiety? I’d block when ordering a sandwich or talking to Siri, and i wasn’t afraid of the audien...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
5 points

Address it with the person that you're speaking to. In the moment and on the spot. What should you say in the moment? That'll be situationally dependent. But speak your mind. "Is my stutter making y...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

I have nervous ticks, but they are caused by my severe social anxiety/phobia, not my stuttering. All though my stuttering usually makes my social anxiety worse which then makes my nervous ticks more v...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterNov 12, 2022
16 points

I see the persons losing interest when I talk to them

I see the persons losing interest when I talk to them Everything is fine when I rarely manage to talk without stuttering, but when I start to block and the phrase don't come out I see the people whose...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentGenetic & Family FactorsRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
5 points

You flinch (partially looking away) bc your brain is convinced your listener’s face will convey disdain. The way to address it is to consciously hold normal eye contact when beginning to speak...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
5 points

Here’s my litmus test- can you say your name (job, address etc) perfectly fine when alone but have fear/pounding heart when saying it to a person?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
8 points

You just described stuttering. It’s actually mostly a type of social anxiety issue that gets worse the more you try to hide it. I suspect that anyone who stutters when taking to themself is doing s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
8 points

Every time I stop by this subreddit I'm amazed how we all have the exact same experiences and fears and embarrassing situations like OP but more importantly how we all deal with them internally and ex...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
9 points

I disagree. my girlfriend was at the other end of the table with me. My roommates girlfriend shut her down after my girlfriend gave her a look. despite my disfluencies, my girlfriend is more shy than ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
2 points

I had another social event last night where I only knew one person. I avoided introducing myself when I walked in (and immediately felt bad about it). But I later talked with people, let out a bunc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
5 points

As a person who’s had a disabling dysfluency for many years, I’m sincerely asking you this - how often does the other person truly know it’s a serious speech impediment ?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
3 points

Sometimes our stutter gets worse, if possible we shouldn't let it push us down, that's get hard when there is someone mocking us but we must overpass it, personaly I think it is impressive you have a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance