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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2020
11 points

I've used this approach personally and there's a relief that it's out in the open. Once, it was actually a bonus - I was interviewing with a partner at the local accounting firm and the guy was real...

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postr/StutterJan 10, 2020
7 points

It is appropriate to mention your stutter at a job interview?

It is appropriate to mention your stutter at a job interview? What are your thoughts? I have a moderate stutter that is noticeable as I have prolong speech. If you do believe it is appropriate, do y...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2020
5 points

Worked at retail for years. Often the laugh is then coupled with outright ignorance like "Oh, I didn't know" as if that makes it okay. What I did was burn a few seconds at the start, on days I could f...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
2 points

It's something that crossed my mind. But ultimately I couldn't think of any name that was both noticably easier to say, and still felt like me. In my job introducing yourself to new people is very ...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
2 points

Hi. 22F here and I have felt what you felt before and have had my stutter for as long as I can remember, but it does get better. After graduating college, I was terrified about not being able to find ...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
10 points

The question was 'what motivates me to keep on living'?, right? I have two arms and two legs - they all work... Full set of teeth, that's great. I have had tumors removed from my body so I'm in remis...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

With kids you just tell them you have a speech problem and they still like you. With adults, they judge you. Definitely go to the interview because you'll be in a MUCH more positive environment. I rea...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

Definitely do the interview for the nursery. I work at a school and the kids I work with are more understanding and patient with my stutter than a lot of work places I’ve been in. The more interviews ...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

i’m just so worried with being unemployed and me getting worse :( i just don’t know how much longer i can stay where i am...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

QUIT! i’m probably a bad influence but honestly if they aren’t being considerate and accommodating a literal disability then you can do better. best of luck w the nursery job, i hope you can find a wo...

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
3 points

I used my job to make my stutter better. Why don’t you view every phone call a opportunity to get better? When you do stutter, in a cool way just mention you have a speech impediment and you are worki...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
3 points

If you want to take the nursery job then do the interview. Please don’t let your stutter dictate what you do with your life :)...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
7 points

You should definitely take the job opportunity! The last thing you would want is to regret not doing things because of your stutter...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
3 points

Yeah for sure! I feel like once I get used to the job and feel more comfortable it’ll get easier....

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
1 points

I can relate. When I get a new job, I always struggle at first with the phone. But after awhile, it becomes easy, because my brain adjusts. What never becomes easy, though, is just randomly answering ...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
44 points

Starting my new job!

Starting my new job! I got a job as a dental receptionist and I start tomorrow! I’m really nervous but I hope to work through my stutter and overcome it. My biggest concern is answering the phone (th...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

Phone calls were (and still are to an extent) hard for me to get used to. I used to be similar to you and absolutely terrified of answering the phone or having to call someone. The only thing that did...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

To answer everyone, No i am not in school. I flunked my first semester in all 4 classes with grades ranging from 11-34 . Ive been kicked out of the school and denied fafsa for the next year. The scho...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

I’m 19 and have no work experience. I haven’t even tried to get a real job because my stutter is so bad. I currently work online for Appen Connect. You only get 20 hours a week and it’s only $10 an ho...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
9 points

I agree about not putting the fact that you stutter on your job application. Wait until the interview. During the interview, I inevitably block, either straight away during introductions or during so...

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