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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2022
3 points

As a person who’s stammered their whole life the best advice I could give you is to make sure that she’s comfortable with her stammer, as a kid I wish someone told me that it’s okay to be different. I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2022
4 points

I wish I learned that it was OK to stutter. Growing up I was taught that every time I stuttered, I failed at not stuttering. This is not helpful. The goal is not to be 100% fluent, but to be really go...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2022
15 points

I'm a 36 year old stutterer and the one thing I wish I would've got more of when I was growing up is positive reinforcement. I never heard my parents say it was OK to stutter and that I should embrace...

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Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2022
2 points

I am new to this sub, but here are my 2 cents. I am 28. I was laughed at at school, i had sooo much worry to speak in class, but I remember myself being somewhat different from now. I was powerless an...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2022
3 points

Very good point. It is pretty much the same as that phrase, especially since when acting, then nervousness is always to convey some script point....

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postr/StutterJan 24, 2022
17 points

28 years of stuttering - My lessons and Motivation

28 years of stuttering - My lessons and Motivation Hello nice people, I came here looking to share my outlook on life consisting of almost conatant stuttering. Some good years, some worse. But overall...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2022
2 points

Definitely worrying. Once I made peace with it and accepted my stutter, I realized that no one cares that I stutter. At least now as an adult....

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Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2022
3 points

Stuttering has helped me find the right people in my life. Every person that's around me doesn't show that my stutter bothers them, even if it might deep down. I don't interact with people that do sho...

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
1 points

That’s awesome that you are gaining the confidence to reward people for the behaviors you wanna see, and call people out for the behaviors you don’t want to see. Don’t ever think that others are bett...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
2 points

I don't get your point. Do you mean stuttering is not that horrible or something? If you mean 'curing' stuttering is not a realistic goal then I agree, but if you say mitigating stutter/improving flue...

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Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
5 points

I don't see what's wrong with wanting to improve yourself. Speech is a learned skill. Everyone has some amount of disfluency. Actors take classes to improve their speaking. Stuttering isn't my ident...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
8 points

This is a beautiful take, however I must say this. As stutterers, we ourselves want to get more fluent at speaking because it can increase our opportunities in life. For example, Joe Biden is POTUS, a...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
4 points

I am always frustrated when I hear you argue against fluency. It seems that you prioritize acceptance over fluency. To such a degree that I often hear you denigrate the idea of achieving fluency. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
36 points

My stutter shows me who people truly are and who is worthy of my time....

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
10 points

It made me focus on my speech and now I am 99% fluent and looking at sales/management positions. It helped me realize that everyone makes small mistakes once in a while and they aren't a big deal....

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postr/StutterJan 22, 2022
19 points

Ask yourself if it were someone else...

Ask yourself if it were someone else... If it were someone else in the room with a block, how would you treat them? If it were a family member with a disability, would you think less of them? Would y...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
3 points

Always own your stutter. Never hide it or make excuses for it. There is nothing to be ashamed of. There is no reason to lie. BTW, I've had people mistake my stutter for a network issue....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
12 points

Simply speaking my stuttering dedicated me into stuttering charity and I am all the time helping PWS like me....

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postr/StutterJan 22, 2022
19 points

As someone who stutters, what are some positive ways it has impacted your life?

As someone who stutters, what are some positive ways it has impacted your life? ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2022
6 points

I understand what you are Saying i am also going in the same approach, another thing i would like to add to your description is how we react to our own stutter if i don't immediately react negatively ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking