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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
2 points

I understand thank you, some of these obstacles can at times feel insurmountable. There are days certain situations feel absolutely impossible. In those situations I feel that fight or flight response...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
1 points

Lol. This is exactly my entire childhood. However, I’m an adult now and can handle myself & others under pressure....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
1 points

Do you have any advice specifically on speech-related anxiety? This is my main focus im trying to address because for years I used avoidances and never understood the damage of that until recently...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
2 points

Jeez man, that's a huge accomplishment. I'm looking to move into a speaking intensive job and it's absolutely horrifying for me....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
2 points

Saying things like this absolutely won't change the fact that everyone who doesn't stutter thinks the opposite of this, saying "Oh don't worry, no one thinks poorly of your stutter." Won't change the ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
1 points

Spanish guy here, I don't stutter a lot, is mostly based on how nervous I am, but I do it in English and French from time to time. I'm surprised to see there's people that doesn't in languages that ar...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
5 points

Phone anxiety

Phone anxiety I am a pws and I have bad anxiety when it comes to phone calls. It's destroying my relationships, and I don't know how to fix it. I'd rather answer the phone than call someone. Although ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
2 points

Try getting humiliated everyday as a kid then in adulthood having that ptsd & same bullshit with social anxiety carry over with u everyday. For some people Stuttering is a hell on earth unfortunat...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
8 points

What I believe stuttering is for a lot of us

What I believe stuttering is for a lot of us So to simplify I believe stuttering for a lot of us is the fear of half-way committing to speaking, then fear of a reaction from the listener because they ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
3 points

I relate, the morning in class I'm quiet, thinking I better not to talk. But then I realise how bad this idea is, and that I actually wanna et will talk. Idk, it's very weird... At least I'm happy I f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
9 points

Do you ever feel guilty for intrusive thoughts relating to stuttering?

Do you ever feel guilty for intrusive thoughts relating to stuttering? Maybe it's just me, but, it's been happening a lot more recently. I have a bad day and/or a bad experience and I end up thinkin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
3 points

how you guys are facing the interview or else presentation.

how you guys are facing the interview or else presentation. I am M in my childhood. I don't give presentations or other speaking activities because I know what will happen when I do that. Some people ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
3 points

You’re right, it does suck…but it makes us unique. I used to be so hard on myself as well and I was always so worried about what other people thought of me. One day I woke up and I decided I was going...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
6 points

I've experienced this exact thing my whole life. My chest tenses up and heart flutters whenever I'm out in a social situation or even on the phone. My BP also goes up alot I notice. It's because of th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
1 points

I had this exact same issue.. I was very self conscious of the face I made when stuttering which made me very anxious before any conversation. I basically took a course with stuttering coach who helpe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
28 points

At some point I'll get a heart attack cause of my stutter.

At some point I'll get a heart attack cause of my stutter. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
1 points

Working with an SLP who can address the fear of looking like a fool will make a big difference in your journey. As long as you continue to fear looking like a fool, you will pretty much always enter ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
2 points

The weird faces are called secondary behaviors. They're a form of avoidance or escape behaviors. Meaning they're things that your body has learned to do to either avoid the stuttering moment or get o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
1 points

The way I always thought, people's perception of me stuttering and blocking, they thought I was "slow" mentally but then realized I just stuttered. Literally heard this come out of a woman's mouth tal...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
4 points

have you tried voluntary stuttering? it's supposed to reduce both involuntary stuttering, anxiety and weird faces. In my case, it increases stuttering but I do it because decreasing anxiety and weir...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension