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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
3 points

No one ever said anything to me, except one time on a zoom call where my anxiety was turned to 11 and I was blocking more than usual, and a superior said that I could write it on chat if I wanted to, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
1 points

I stuttered in speech when my father hit me at the age of 4, and since then I have stuttered a little in speech, such as the letters A and K. In this case, you can overcome stuttering almost easily wi...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalFeared Words & NamesRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterJan 21, 2025
26 points

Do you guys stutter when alone ?

Do you guys stutter when alone ? I think our brain has adapted a menachism to stutter when with other people , bacause we trained the brain with fear and anxiety....

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalStress & Fight/FlightLoss of Control
postr/StutterJan 20, 2025
13 points

I think my friend started tearing up when I told him that my family still makes fun of my stutter

I think my friend started tearing up when I told him that my family still makes fun of my stutter Idk for certain because he’s definitely rough around the edges. A nice person, but has a very snarky ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJan 20, 2025
3 points

In your own thoughts. Is stuttering remission possible by addressing the psychosocial component of stuttering?

In your own thoughts. Is stuttering remission possible by addressing the psychosocial component of stuttering? The psychosocial aspect is likely secondary to the neurological and genetic factors. And ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

My parents were absent when I was a tot and I was raised by my grandparents, I don’t think I had a permanent stuttering in kindergarten, it only got worse when my parents became present in my life aro...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Trauma & PsychologicalGenetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

Science doesn’t know for sure the cause but for most it starts when speech is developing at a tot. Your parents yelling at you is a reflection of them not knowing how to handle an already-present cond...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

My head did get bumped a bunch of times when I was a kid, either because my parents were clumsy or myself being naughty, it might mess some things up in there. My parents also claimed it’s because of ...

Causes & Variability
Trauma & PsychologicalNeurological & BrainGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

I’d love to read more essays and books about stutter, the only essay I’m familiar with is “The Monster Study”by Wendell Johnson, which I feel explains my situation partially. My stutter got cemented a...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

I feel the same too. I couldn’t express my feelings without being berated, I couldn’t get what I wanted because what I want is always wrong in my parents eyes. Even now I’m often second guessing what ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

Stuttering and OCD connections?

Stuttering and OCD connections? Hello! Does stuttering and OCD have any connections? I have developed both of these in around a year....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

Humor reason - dont play the throw your kids and catch them game when under a ceiling fan. ( I have a dark sense of humor). Trama reason - when I was 2, I rolled out of a pop-up camper in the middle ...

Community & SupportCauses & Variability
Personal StoriesTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

That’s what I’m settling with currently too. I always tried to hide my stutter before, of course it’s not fooling anyone, and the pressure of trying to speak 100% smoothly just made my stutter worse. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

Our perfectionism is part of our OCD. With everything involved in our issues, I think that therapists are more concerned with dousing the immediate fires. There’s usually enough going on that you’d ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

My psychotherapist believes it’s emotionally related to not being allowed to verbally express my wants and needs. There wasn’t any other overt family violence but I was ‘discouraged’ from expressing m...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalNeurological & BrainIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
3 points

When I studied in school I was a stutterer ,my father was a college professor that time and surprisingly other 2 students who stuttered were also sons of college professors. We 3 are only stutterers i...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & Work
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
8 points

Everything is physical.   There is no separate mental realm. It all originates from the brain.    One person can have your upbringing and not stutter.  Another one does.   Your brain is different.  So...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

Hi, thanks for your response. It wasn't easy because he happened to humiliate me sometimes. He used to say "In life you must be the first or you're nothing". I never agreed with it... I didn't follow ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 20, 2025
8 points

What do you think is the source of your stutter? I think I know mine

What do you think is the source of your stutter? I think I know mine Been doing a lot of reflection on my childhood and been hearing other family member’s perspectives. I grew up in an oppressive env...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

No, I have a therapist, but I've never really talked about it with anyone because I've tended to minimize its importance to myself since it's so specific and doesn't actually cause communication issue...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more