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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
2 points

Thanks for answering! I understand that people have good intentions, so my frustration is rarely directed at the people saying they stutter. I think it is more of a frustration with the situation. I w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I just had someone very close to me who I’ve reconnected with, be very surprised at how severe my stutter had become. His attempt at consoling during a talk we had was to say that he also stutters. ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
4 points

I’ll second the general consensus of “it depends.” It’s covered under the ADA, but whether you feel it constitutes a disability in your personal life is up to you....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
38 points

I have a moderate stutter and it's usually fine but sometimes certain medications make it severe. I would put yes for a disability even if I only ever had to deal with it occasionally. It will protect...

Meds & SubstancesSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Harmful Med OutcomesEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
15 points

It can be. If being mute is a disability, so is stuttering if you think about it. If it's mild, it's more of an annoyance....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
10 points

It's usually measured on an individual basis. It can be a disability if it's severe enough, or just a speech disorder. Those with a speech impediment usually cannot file for disability income for exam...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I personally don’t think trying to express your words in a way so that you don’t stutter is harmful. If anything, I’ve found that it has increased my useful vocabulary and has made me verbally quicker...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
6 points

I get annoyed when people without fluency disorders say they stutter

I get annoyed when people without fluency disorders say they stutter I was put in speech therapy at 18 months old for mixed SSD (articulation disorder + phonological delay) and fluency disorder (stutt...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
6 points

I've heard it from both sides. I've heard that avoidance can make your stuttering worse, and I've heard that using synonyms and techniques to avoid stammering improves your stutter because when your s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
2 points

I've heard it from both sides. I've heard that avoidance can make your stuttering worse, and I've heard that using synonyms and techniques to avoid stammering improves your stutter because when your s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

There seems to be some sort of theoretical component to what you're saying in this video. Please elaborate. • What's this about "authentic self"? • Where's this notion of the P's coming from? • Did...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

I am a therapist and have a stutter (and currently doing my masters in Speech Pathology) and in my opinion a psychologist could help with the negative impacts of having a stutter (self concept, anxiet...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
2 points

Well, my psychotherapist has helped me accept it as a part of me and that there's nothing wrong with me. I grew up often believing there was something wrong with the way I talked. But, it just happens...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2021
10 points

That really sucks. In my mind I said: "I'm not fucking nervous, hell, I stutter, just that! Is it so difficult to understand that shit?"...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2021
18 points

I am 53 years old and only recently told by my mom I had a stutter as a kid.

I am 53 years old and only recently told by my mom I had a stutter as a kid. I never made fun of people with stutters, and I always stuck up for people that did stutter. Now I know why. I did make f...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
6 points

I really love what the other two commenters have said. But yes, I feel the same as you. I often respond to younger stutterers who post on this subreddit looking for guidance, support etc and I feel li...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
70 points

The hardest part about stuttering to me...

The hardest part about stuttering to me... Is even though as a grown adult I have managed to reduce the associated shame over time and logically can understand that it's not something that makes me so...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
6 points

I'm 31, almost 32, having stuttered since I was 5. I've never dated or even been close to that. I'm basically where you're at right now in thinking that I'll be alone, and I'm struggling with that rea...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
2 points

I’m sorry you went through that. And yes I also have that pattern of trying to make myself as non threatening as possible. Taking up space - standing straight, looking into someone’s eyes, asserting o...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
3 points

“I wonder if stuttering is a manifestation of an unconscious intention not to assert oneself/speak one’s mind due to some trauma we’ve experienced.” I agree. I only started stuttering after my dad p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception