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Based on what you’re saying, it sounds like you’re primarily seeking sex, which suggests lust. It also seems that pornography has influenced your perspective, making sex both a need and a desire for y...

You're 33, your life is not over yet. Your insecurity is your biggest obstacle, not your stutter. People with stutters find love, people with physical and mental disabilities find love, people who are...

My last sentence meant : having the goal of sex with a woman who’s focused on looks will make a relationship nearly impossible. Therefore, if that is truly your goal, escorts are your best choice. ...

Seems like your whole post is about wanting physical intimacy. You mentioned “looks maxing” before therapy, which seems to indicate your priorities. If your goal is to have sex with a woman who lik...

Maybe for the other guys on here that are young there is hope..but like I said im 33. my looks that I tried so hard to max out are fading with time & I'm not has upbeat ad I used to be. I still feel l...

GUYS GUYS GUYS!! fellow stutter girl here....im here to tell you fellas. please do not give up hope! I know escorts seem like a quick easy fix to get laid...but you guys are gonna regret it...you're ...

Having a severe stutter means that you’re already carrying an enormous cross which God probably does recognise. The dilemma between indulging the pleasures of the flesh and feeling good for a bit vs...

I feel for you, dating in general seems to be pretty crappy for almost everyone, adding a disability like stuttering just makes it worse. At the end of the day, what matters most is that you take care...

I'm a Christian myself even though it doesn't sound like it and I have back slid alot in my life & questioned if God cared for my suffering at all. I 100% realise that I'm a sinner headed to hell (whi...

This is a truly difficult ethical dilemma. I thank God that my stutter is not severe enough that I have been able to have intimacy with a woman without paying. So I can’t exactly preach to you because...

Yea they have no idea. It’s easy to look down on people paying for sex when you’ve gotten sex your whole life. Or you’ve never dealt with getting rejected for things you can’t control. I would hones...

Yeah but atleast you where able to get to that point as shitty as that situation is. I would never want to experience that shit ofc...that's also one of my fears is to get into a toxic relationship wh...

I'm saying this like a older brother would man..try to get off the drugs pls.. I know it's the only thing that makes you feel like life is worth living. But take it from me I dabbled in various stimu...

I’ve paid for it many times and plan on doing it more. I’ve also have suffered depression and substance abuse because of my stutter. I’m 23 and have never touched a woman sexually in any way besides p...

Oh man I feel you. I'm an 18 yo drug addict and I feel like I'm wasting my teenage times. Sober from opioids for over a year, I do other downers tho so still not fully sober and probably never will be...

I think I touched rock bottom at 24, then I took a 2-week program in Italy that changed my life. No magic bullet: for me it was hearing how I was so using stuttering to avoid living my life. It was re...

Well, I'll tell you that my social life has improved a lot after applying this method, I've tried many other things that stopped working over time, days to be more specific, but this one is really hel...

I was 27 when I went on my first date. We’re still together 11 years later. I never really worried about it, I just lived my life, made friends, nurtured my interests. There’s no blueprint for happi...

I've said all this stuff before on this sub, but it bears repeating: I don't know what the equivalent in Norway is, or even if there is one, but here in the US there's the National Stuttering Associa...

The best thing you can do for her is not bring attention to the stutter. If you normalize her way of communicating, you will help take some pressure off of her. I know from experience it’s extremely h...