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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
3 points

Don't quit! I also stutter and I took the same challenge and I have been working at a call center for the past 1 month, yes the most difficult part is the call opening but after that it's nothing....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
6 points

Don't quit. No matter how hard it is. Eventually you will gain confidence when you keep talking to the people. Even if you lose the job after some time, you'd still have gained a lot of confidence for...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
3 points

The thing is quitting this job wouldn’t harm me financially but staying and the idea of waking up every morning and going to work in fear is dreadful to me. I usually manage my stutter well but I have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
7 points

Personally, I say stick it out for a little longer. 10 days isn't enough time to judge a new job imo, especially since you've only done the training. (Unless it's significantly affecting some aspect o...

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Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 14, 2020
18 points

Should I quit?

Should I quit? I recently accepted a job at a call center thinking I could manage since my stutter is mild. After 10 days of training today they asked me to answer a call and my heart dropped. Since s...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
4 points

lol was it difficult for me? Imagine working at an architects called " Berties design shop" but you cant say "Berties" or "design" without stuttering ! Names changed but totally true. I dreaded the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
1 points

It's not a problem at the minute because he isn't in a situation where he needs to talk outside the household. In 3-4 years time when he's out of school and into the work world, things will be differe...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2020
2 points

This was me for the past 2 years. Finally started around 3 months ago but I don't actually talk in my videos for now :p I do videos on racing games and put text over the video when I need to. I pla...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2020
1 points

Sorry to hear about the remark your dad made. My parents weren’t “accepting” of my stutter either and never made any effort to make me feel better about it or make me feel understood. I’m an adult now...

Community & SupportSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2020
3 points

Judging parents can be toxic for your personal development, depends ofcourse, I am talking about my experience. If you are looking forward to college, use this opportunity to get a little away from th...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
8 points

One great takeaway from Lee G Lovett's book on stuttering is to overwrite "stutter memories" with "fluent memories". It's simply, "Listen to yourself speaking fluently" --> "Feel confident that yo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesExperiential AssociationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
11 points

That’s the “good” part about jobs where you have to talk to a lot of people, I feel like the more people I talk to the more confident I get about talking. Going back to work after lockdown was a night...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
13 points

I worked as a cashier for a bit, had plenty of customers laugh at and berate me when I tripped up on my script or couldn't get a certain word out. It actually helped me become less embarrassed about i...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
1 points

Yes I stutter. I had a severe stutter between the ages of 3-10 yrs old. Started speech therapy when I was 4 yrs old and quit going when I turned 18 in high school. I think all the years of therap...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
6 points

I’m 28 and I’ve stuttered my whole life. I work for Oracle as a salesperson and I’ve worked there for almost 6.5 years, since I graduated college. At first my stutter held me back a lot and I would b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
4 points

I did sales for 15 years with a stutter and worked with someone who stuttered much worse than I did. My stutter is actually much worse now than it was then because I was doing really well and didn't r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
4 points

All opportunities you never seek are missed opportunities. Go for it and shine. EDIT: this is from a doctor in training that stutters, it’s a struggle compared to my other peers, but I do my best to ...

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Employment & Career
postr/StutterOct 9, 2020
15 points

Does anyone know someone in sales who stutters?

Does anyone know someone in sales who stutters? I have wanted to get into sales, specifically as a real estate agent or some other kind of sales but I fear I won't be taken seriously. Sometimes with s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
2 points

People suck but you can radiate positivity! You have the ability to shine in the face of adversity. I stooped speech therapy a long time ago. I got sick and tired of trying to change myself. You are e...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2020
2 points

Can be pretty tough in terms of interviewing since they follow certain stignas. I'm a moderate stutter but in interviews, I tend to be a bit severe. However, I have met investment bankers andother fin...

School & WorkCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerSeverity & Fluctuation