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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
6 points

The journey to learn and internalize that it's ok to stutter in a society where it is still stigmatized....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
5 points

Plz don't take her to speech therapy with the goal to "remove her stuttering." Yes, stuttering is a struggle but you can live a relatively normal life with it and learn to accept it and the struggles ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

Yep. Took me a lot of speech therapy (with "therapy" being the key word of accepting it) to get over the "wish I was in my bed alone rn" thoughts and more of a "oop let's try to forget about that" (im...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
4 points

I was one of the kids where no therapy helped at all. Heck, I really didn't even understand why I was in therapy until middle school. I didn't really notice my stutter because until I had encountered ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
1 points

Oh yeah I've thought about this many many times. I'm convinced my life would be vastly different if I didn't stutter but I don't think I'd use the word "cruel" to define it. I'm completely at peace wi...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

You have to understand a speech therapist cannot just remove a stutter as there is no known cure. Hopefully she can feel comfortable enough that it doesn't feel severe and is just a minor bother here...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
5 points

You got to be kind to yourself. You didn't get here by choices you made. There's no fault to be laid at your feet. Every time you put yourself out there knowing that you might stutter is a goddamn ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
1 points

Hello, fellow female, haha!! I agree it's very werid to be the minority gender with a a disability that affects even a smaller number of people. But we're at least 3 strong, and that's something!!...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
7 points

Yep, I feel this on a deep level lol. I work for an insulation/fiber glass company, so instead of servicing different customers everyday, we have the same consistent client base that comes in every mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
10 points

Support your daughter and also teach her it’s okay to be different!!!! I stutter and I’ve achieved way more in my life than my peers 💝 you’re already an awesome mom for seeking guidance!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
16 points

im really at the point of "i dont care anymore". it bothers me for a good 30 seconds then i go back to whatever im doing. like for me, all i do is stare into the abyss and regret every life decision i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
3 points

I have been stuttering for 40 years, the only advice I can give is encourage her to never let it hold her back. There are many famous successful people in history who have had some form of speech impe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
5 points

A very familiar story. I was also pretty outgoing. Stutter never stopped me from talking too much and annoying my teachers haha Sometimes I wish I had smooth speech. Most times I think stuttering, and...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
1 points

It’s funny, because the things you mention you are doing now are things normal people do without effort. Lovely to hear that you have made it this far!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
1 points

Just stutter it out. It isn’t fun, but its honest work....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
8 points

I'm fluent enough that today I went out of my way 4 times today to talk to people I didn't need to talk to. I had a handful of job interviews in the last months, and had no fear about my fluency, ha...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
16 points

Hi Benny, This is super common. Your name is tough because you only use it when you’re meeting someone new, and that’s a challenging situation for people who stutter. You’re worried what they’ll think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
1 points

A lot of people stutter, myself included. I’ve been stuttering for nearly a decade. I’m great talking one-on-one, but in a virtual call I stutter a lot too. Its kind of weird. Some days I stutter a l...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
2 points

Agree with this. I have done this several times. Keep it light and keep rolling straight into the next topic from there. It helps ease tension in room and for you to relax. Good luck. Kick ass....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
2 points

Just saw your post, and I was going to tell you that I think many ppl here are young males, many non-Americans. I’m an young Gen x female, fwiw. Very glad you are here! There are ways to trick your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesPhysical TensionAcceptance & Pride+1 more