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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

Excuse me, you try to not tell her off???? Why??? This is bullying and bullying should not be tolerated!! This should not be considered acceptable behavior!! Maybe he thinks that no response will disc...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
0 points

David, thank you for providing your phone number to the OP, but please delete it from the public reply ASAP. You never know what creep is going to see it. You can message him privately....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Great tips, I’m almost 40 and still remember the terror in school as it was yesterday. I’m giving presentations almost every day now but with the same bad stutter. My tip for my young self would be: Y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

I worked in research for years, had my own company and work now in consulting as a manager (talking somehow all day long) with a really bad stutter … still more bad days than good days but at least th...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Why did you not let the professor know ahead? I can’t tell you how much of a difference it makes in self disclosure. I am hard of hearing and I didn’t go to my in person class because I told my profes...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

I’m sorry but idk if I just don’t understand this post. You say you are a senior, yet in your post you say “I thought people were more mature after high school” and after looking at your history, you ...

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2024
4 points

Stutter

Stutter Well I went on a stutter day outing with a few people who had stutters as well and yes mine is not as bad anymore because I swap words that make it easier for me to fill sentences but it doe...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Well, this will ultimately happen, I will end up saying something, as I detest bullies and in essence, that is what she is, then I know by doing this, I will then be singled out, I'm sure of it, this ...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
13 points

Man. Good on you for coming here to ask for advice. It is a delicate matter - what with not wanting to potentially embarrass the guy, and with her being boss's missus. I'd either take her quietly to ...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
19 points

Call out bad behavior. If you do not speak up on an unacceptable issue or situation, you are essentially condoning it. Complacency equals complicity...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
1 points

I've been in education for 15 years, currently Dean of Students. I could explain this in more detail but the TLDR is I have to do it. I've learned what to say, what not to say, I've stuttered openly i...

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Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Call him out on it mid training, tell him fuck with me again and I’ll tell HR on your dumbass or if there’s no HR just secretly fuck with him. Put a nail in his tire or something like that etc Don’...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
12 points

What were some of your nicest encounters with others?

What were some of your nicest encounters with others? We discuss our bad experiences with people on this sub so often, but what were some of the nicest encounters you’ve had with non-stutterers? Whe...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
2 points

Never do that! If you like, say something like, yes, I stutter/ have a stutter. Never say sorry. I think it will even make the listner feel awkward (more than your stutter might have done) and you're ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

If this assholes actions were so blatantly immature I would've educated him infront of everyone for a hot second. Explained my disorder while looking at him then carried on with the presentation. Eith...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
3 points

That is solid thinking. Running would only build anxiety and make things worse when you next need to do it. I give talks to groups of people. I practice the shit out each one. When presenting, I am d...

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Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
2 points

Was thinking of turning it down bcs the teacher wont mind bcs she knows i stutter but until when? Thats cowardice. I can run but i cant hide from public speaking so if this is how i die let me die....

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
3 points

YESSSS I do this! It’s the most embarrassing thing ever I’m just there trying to speak and all I can get out is sorry. I know I don’t have to apologize but they’re waiting on me to say something and I...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Yeah that’s reasonable, I just have a bit of a different style. Same in principle. I don’t really disclose that I stutter, but I definitely understand why people would want to. I guess I just figure t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

There are *tangible* steps one can take to *achieve* the result of not constantly thinking others are judging you. The steps acknowledge the severe emotional pain (trauma) involved with trying to sp...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others