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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

I think we just have to «own it». Own your stutter. Meaning you should show no sight that it’s bothering you. It will also reduce your stutter. I find it difficult because it feels like a curse. Anyon...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
1 points

Plenty of other places to work at. You dodged a bullet if that was how they took your request. I stuttered and worked at almost all the big giants in my field for 12 years now. My secret: acceptance a...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
2 points

Same here, Im 18 and I've stuttered through my teen years and I've seen worse worse days where my own siblings would mock me. I still stutter but its much much better than how I used to stutter 1 or 2...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
2 points

I too was just like you fearing every moment I had to talk in class, in social settings, etc.. what I’ve found out now is no one really reacts to the stuttering itself, they’re reacting to your reacti...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
-1 points

Tell that to my fluency :) There has never been a shortage of cement solved without cement - you cannot solve a stutter without admitting that the fluency is possible, that it is there!...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
1 points

Your assumptions seem valid however each stutterer is unique. Their stuttering was caused by different reasons and they might stutter in a slightly different manner Your example of a stutterer who ha...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
2 points

For some people it does get better, your experience doesn’t equal everyone else’s. And having a disability doesn’t give you an excuse to be a dick....

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Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
2 points

Oh, gee! I'm sorry I missed your message yesterday. You asked about my strategy. I don't have one. I sought psychotherapy for an unrelated issue, anxiety, and depression. In the course of therapy, my ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
3 points

It’s hard. It’s like, really, really hard. I promise you it gets better though. My teens were some of the worst years of my life. For me it got easier after some speech therapy where we also worke...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
3 points

I just started to disclose my stuttering. I'm currently in AIT, and I have to do a lot of reading out loud and presenting. I thought I was messing up a lot, so after one presentation I disclosed that ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
3 points

I don't care, I find it a little nice but if they keep getting it wrong it does annoy me...

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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
2 points

I also get what you’re saying but I’m not speaking for everyone, just myself and how I feel. But part of my trauma of stuttering are people constantly yelling at me for stuttering, forcing me to talk ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
3 points

While I can understand what you're saying, in that you're glad that you found acceptance, I fail to understand how trauma is ever "cute". I don't know, it rubs me the wrong way. The times when we get ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
3 points

Idk, my ex said it was cute and made me feel accepted because she wasn’t one of those people who hated my stutter....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2023
2 points

Thanks. It’s wonderful Just to be able to say what I’m thinking and not dread peoples’ reactions when I stutter. Since I can’t reverse the clock and live my life over as a non stutterer, I’ll be grate...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
0 points

I’m not suggesting people should stop looking for techniques to reduce stuttering. I didn’t mean for my comment to come off as “it’s so easy to accept yourself”. You can comment your suggestions and I...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2023
3 points

I know some people on this subreddit don’t like this answer. It sounds like you need to work on acceptance. Your stutter may improve or it may not but either way life needs to go on. Therapy might be ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2023
10 points

Communication is one of the fundamental parts of human society, and we have a hard time communicating. I know I feel like I’m trapped in my own head because I know what I wanna say. I know the answer ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2023
2 points

Man I'd definitely hate anyone who'd treat me like that but anyways...I don't think we can change the inevitable,well most of us can't so why can't they just go f themselves,live your life and don't ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2023
2 points

We should embrace our diversity. There's even a school of thought that autism and other neurodivergent traits are evolutionary advances. How anyone looks or talks makes them who they are and they shou...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity