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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
5 points

Also the man was in his late 40s - 50s in the 90s. Let's say he achieved a level of fluency at age age 35, you're seeing him with 15 years of mastered fluency under his belt...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
13 points

Word substitution, avoidances etc..people can be adept at giving an impression of fluency but can come at great internal cost…..My stammer is interiorised or covert. As such, it’s a very hidden diffic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
6 points

A speech therapist I saw in college had really good control of her fluency. In a more casual situation she explained her fluency decreased significantly. I’ve met coworkers that took me months to figu...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
16 points

Same reason why you wouldn't know I stutter. I got speech therapy and achieved fluency in my 20s I still stutter if I am really tired. You see the presidency taking it's toll on Joe. I catch him havi...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
2 points

You bring up great, thoughtful points and questions. I'll try to answer all of your questions, but I'd be more than happy to chat about this further if you want to drop me a line. >When you were ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
1 points

> It's within me " I realized that normal speakers do not get caught up on every detail trying to get out words, how to set up the most fluent sentence" -> I agree, we focus on accepting stutt...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
5 points

Doing theater, I found that when performing arts like acting for example really makes my stutter go away and gives me a huge boost in confidence. Can’t explain why it happens though. I’m sure the same...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
2 points

I'm not sure how I feel about the term "happy stutter" (for me it's more a non stutterers mindset) and you'll have to give me a better explanation about what you mean by "removing stressors" I'll te...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
1 points

You said : I realize it's a radical viewpoint in the stuttering community. To be honest, I never thought I'd have happy stutter mindset" I agree, instead of a happy stutter mindset, I think we shoul...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
1 points

I agree. It's unquestioned by influencers that stuttering has no cure and the rest follow without trying to remove their perceived stresses which causes stutter (according to most stutter books). So w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
1 points

I agree. In my experience in my life, every time I create a 'new method' to speak. The first couple of days I believe "THIS method helps". Result: I experience fluency. But days later I gradually stut...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
1 points

The answer is quite simple. According to WeStutter (website) stuttering is caused by perceived stresses. You asked what you can do daily for 10 minutes. My opinion is to reduce the stresses (anxiety...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 17, 2022
10 points

Overcoming the Feeling of Inferiority (Stutter With Confidence podcast episode)

Overcoming the Feeling of Inferiority (Stutter With Confidence podcast episode) Stutter With Confidence #68 with Lani Roy Overcoming the Feeling of Inferiority In this highly enjoyable conversati...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
4 points

No but I see why you’re confused lol I meant stutterer...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 17, 2022
8 points

Rejected due to stutter?

Rejected due to stutter? I've been getting rejections from colleges so far. I have pretty good ecs, stats and essays. I based my main common app essay on my stutter and how it has shaped me into a per...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

Too empathetic, so much so I became codependent - living my life through others to avoid dealing with myself. I now understand codependency and that's also a daily struggle. Even although I no longe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
2 points

Very interesting. Well, I’m sorry about you feeling like years were stolen from you, I can relate, but on the bright side I’m sure it’s made you a more insightful and empathetic person; stuttering has...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
2 points

'Gone' as in I can enunciate any word or sentences without stuttering. As I'm now in my 50s it's not a cause for large celebration because 30+ years of stuttering (plus all the other nervous disposit...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

You sound like me lol, I never had the courage to invite a girl out ever in real life, only thru online where I could say everything I wanted and didn't stammer, and I'm 41, so just be yourself and g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

I agree. What else do non-stutterers think regarding their fluent speaking?...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightIdentity & Self-Perception