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postr/StutterAug 11, 2023
16 points

it's so frustrating and i'll never get used to it

it's so frustrating and i'll never get used to it I've always had a good lexico since I was in elementary school but stuttering prevented me from having proper conversations, now I'm in my early 20s a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2023
3 points

You can never be a “master” of avoidance, it’s a symptom. Mastering avoidance would mean that you no longer perform that behavior. I’m not talking about what feels worse, I’m talking about which one ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
3 points

Avoidance is something I guess most of us are masters at, and yes we shouldn't, but to me the embrassment of stuttering is much worse, it has totally wrecked my self confidence over the years, a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
5 points

Avoidance is in most cases a bigger problem than stuttering itself...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
3 points

I stutter my own name … I find different ways to get it out though. Spelling, or just force if I have to....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
2 points

Sometimes I try that, but I don't stutter at all when I am just mouthing them....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
1 points

Great advice. This is my attempt to summarize this in my own words: * "stigma" refers to a negative or unfavorable association or perception that people who stutter might have towards the act of stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
3 points

I had the same problem. I have mentioned some times in this sub that I am an accountant. I stutter on vowels and the name of my school was “University of economics” in english. In my language it is fa...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
13 points

I’m 37 and I still cannot say the name of my college that I graduated from 23 years ago. It’s just one of those things that as a stutter you’re just gonna have to deal with. I usually get it on the t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 10, 2023
24 points

I can’t say the name of the school I’m going to without stuttering

I can’t say the name of the school I’m going to without stuttering I stuttered as a teen but I’m so much better now I almost thought it was entirely gone. But everyone’s asking me about this school an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2023
1 points

Propranolol is antihypertensive, and preferably used under medical supervision. People who stutter have a higher percentage of social anxiety disorder, which is basically excessive worries of being ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2023
7 points

Yes, because from the way I see it, stuttering in general is inhibition of expression. It happens to me in baseball, practicing graffiti (legally), piano, etc. You have to learn how to move and flow y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterAug 9, 2023
10 points

College and public speaking class advice

College and public speaking class advice I’m going to college, and I move into my dorm on Friday. I want to make friends in my classes and with my hallmates, but I’m really shy. If you guys could give...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2023
5 points

That’s how it is for some people, it’s not the main reason of course lol but it’s 1 of the things that some do. I’m one of them, my girlfriend has to tell me sometimes to slow down so I’m not stutteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterAug 9, 2023
4 points

Is that stuttering too?

Is that stuttering too? I sometimes notice when speaking that I am not clearing the syllables/word endings or am speaking too quickly. Then I start speaking more slowly and clearly and everything wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability
postr/StutterAug 8, 2023
12 points

Stutter got noticeably worse over last few months

Stutter got noticeably worse over last few months Hey all, just wondered if anyone else has been in a similar situation before. I've had a stutter for most my life but since going into a professional...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterAug 8, 2023
7 points

propranolol helps me

propranolol helps me Hello everyone, I've been testing a lot over the past few weeks to reduce my stuttering. Today I tested propranolol. I have to say, it does a lot for me. My stutter hasn't gone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

propranolol reduces stuttering

propranolol reduces stuttering Hello everyone, I've been testing a lot over the past few weeks to reduce my stuttering. Today I tested propranolol 10mg. I have to say, it does a lot for me. My stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

I think you should just be you and stutter when you stutter. Faking a stutter just seems like extra exhaustion and you might end stuttering worse if you’re constantly fake stuttering. I’m saying this ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 8, 2023
21 points

Girls are thinking I'm rude

Girls are thinking I'm rude I'm extremely friendly person and i always wanted a friend who is a girl ( you know what I mean) and some girls do come talk to me, but I end up being silent which make the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance