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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2017
3 points

Yeah, or thumbs up, or an informal salute of some sort. I think it's important that we be able to resort to movement when our speech fails us. It helps us stay in the communication....

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2017
2 points

Every day I have fun with the drive-by "How are you/what's up/how's it going?" I always take the time to slowly answer and people have to stop and hear me out before going on. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2017
3 points

I think just a smile and a head nod/small wave would work just as well if you're stressing about saying anything! That's what I do...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2017
2 points

That's not doxxing. Doxxing is when you attempt to find personal information about a user to harass them in real life....

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2017
4 points

Exposure is definitely the cure. My speech hasn't really improved throughout my life, but stuttering is not an issue to me anymore. I'm infinitely more concerned about if I have a booger in my nose. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2017
4 points

Thank you for this thread. Very well written. To the part of using psychedelics, I think it's a very valuable experience. I would not recommend trying them when you are in that self-pity hole full of ...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2017
4 points

I lived my entire life afraid of what people would think of me because of my stuttering. As a child I got made fun of and called names like retard. I believed people would think that of me my entire l...

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postr/StutterJul 19, 2017
24 points

In response to the "Don't be a victim thread"

In response to the "Don't be a victim thread" That thread seemed to really hit a nerve with some people and I'd like to share my perspective, as I think the OP had a good idea but didn't really expres...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2017
1 points

Have a couple friends here and there, for most of my life i just stayed indoors playing video games with or without those friends and i met some people online too. I also stutter less online it seems ...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
1 points

I'd agree here. For me it's all about reducing avoidance behavior. I stutter more when I am holding back and "trying not to stutter." By attacking my feared speaking situations methodically, day after...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
1 points

I agree. Growing up I was convinced that people wouldn't be able to get passed my stutter or that they would make fun. In reality though, I can count on my fingers the times I've been ridiculed malici...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
2 points

For me, repetition. I work in an industry that forces me to address a large group of people daily to brief various things (priorities, procedures etc) At first, I was terrified and had problems with s...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
2 points

Definitely. I think it wasn't really my stutter but my reaction toward it. My sisters always made fun of it and so I became really shy and withdrawn. People liked me, but I was so embarrassed about th...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
1 points

When I was a kid, yes. I was bullied and ostracized. Though now as an adult I would say the reason I don't have any friends isn't due to my stutter so much as my weird and awkward personality. When ...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
5 points

I'm a Master Sergeant in the Air Force currently serving as a drill sergeant for USAF BMT. I have a stutter & have also interacted with a fair amount of trainees that stutter & they all manage...

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postr/StutterJul 13, 2017
1 points

Shuttering - Lets break the myth

Shuttering - Lets break the myth Hii all I am Sammy from India,found your group from google. :) Well actually I am a shutterer from my childhood and it had affected my activities till date .Had tried ...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2017
-1 points

Tl;dr. You'd think as stutterers we'd all be able to summarize long ass posts into short paragraphs at maximum since most of us do that every day....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2017
1 points

> I realized that most people don't really care all that much. I think? You're absolutely right. For fluent people who've never struggled with this, when they encounter you, they don't give your s...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2017
1 points

Good luck and good on you for going for it. I worked as a gopher for an auto shop as my first real job and it was a great trial by fire for my stuttering, especially morning runs to Starbucks. Used ...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2017
1 points

The name part isn't that huge of a problem for me because I just don't say my name . I say "I'm Bryant". I have realized sometimes I have to add easier words in the start to make me say it all. For ex...

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