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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
2 points

I agree, almost entirely with you I do believe having this impediment does allow us to have build our mental fortitude to whole different level than regular people. We've been at a disadvantage our ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
8 points

You can't control how other people view you that's for certain. But the world is changing for the better and disorders like stuttering are becoming better understood and accepted. You can live a norma...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
11 points

I agree to a point. If you mean "no good things" as in "it would be far better to live without a stutter", I definitely agree. If you mean"good things" as "recognizing positive qualities that I have a...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
1 points

It’s interesting that psychotherapy enabled my fluency. I just no longer stuttered at all after 65 years. That was 6 years ago. It was a miracle....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
1 points

Manicfoot. I recovered from my stuttering at age 70 and I’m a female. Mine was resolved through psychotherapy to come to terms with an abusive childhood. At various times during my life I tried both ...

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Trauma & PsychologicalFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
2 points

For me, I think accepting stuttering is like saying "I don't care about stuttering anymore", "stuttering is neither bad nor good, it just is" or "I will not try to hide stuttering, fuck it. I give up ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
10 points

Female too. I overcame my stuttering at age 70 through psychotherapy dealing with an abusive childhood. That was 5 years ago and I’ve remained fully fluent. Good luck, Sue...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
2 points

Lucifer Morning Star. Are you by any chance LDS? I just left the church but remember referring to Lucifer as the son of The Morning Star. Now to your answer. I’ve written my story before on the r/st...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
3 points

> But here is different. It's accepting the stutter in order to solve it, This is right here, is why it took me over 10 years to really figure out what acceptance meant to me. I think there are ...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
1 points

I like this a lot. I have a question though: what is exactly accepting the stutter? For me, when I accept something, it means I'm gonna live with it. I'm gonna stop fighting and losing time trying to ...

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Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 4, 2023
6 points

If we can choose to move our leg muscles (when walking). Can we choose to move our speech muscles (when speaking), if we are in fight and flight mode? How do we outgrow stuttering as an adult, in my opinion?

If we can choose to move our leg muscles (when walking). Can we choose to move our speech muscles (when speaking), if we are in fight and flight mode? How do we outgrow stuttering as an adult, in my o...

Speech & StutteringCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Loss of ControlFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
2 points

Welcome to the group. I’m one of the minority, a female stutterer. I’ve fully recovered after stuttering from age 4-5 until age 70! My stutter was related to childhood trauma and through psychotherap...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
3 points

Antonia, as a minority female who stuttered 65 years of my life, I agree with you about exercising self care and recognizing gratitude in one’s life. Thank you for your wise and caring response to OP....

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
9 points

> recovered my fluency through psychotherapy The psychotherapy approach isn't talked about nearly enough in this forum and the stuttering community in general. I recently commented that all the s...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
9 points

You are so right about it not being a mental disorder, though the result of stuttering affects your total ability to function in society. It fosters social withdrawal and loss of self-esteem which can...

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Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
2 points

Oh yes! Everyone reacts differently to things. I wasn’t repeatedly raped or anything but my parents emotionally abused and marginalized me. I can remember being loved and valued up to the time one eye...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
3 points

Mine really did go away! I had to wait until I was 70, but that was 6 years ago and I’ve had no reoccurrence. My stuttering was caused by an abusive childhood and through coming to terms with my resen...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2023
16 points

Funny moment?

Funny moment? I tend to find humor in dealing with my lifelong stutter- keeps me from the pit of despair. What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you when stuttering? I’ll start :) I was at c...

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Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
5 points

Speech therapy worked for me. Not in the sense that what I learned during the sessions fixed my stutter 100% (though I did learn some great tips) but more in the sense that I took action on my own tow...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2023
8 points

Ha Me too. :). I’ve been stuttering for 60 years, this is the first time I’ve ever talked about it publicly. Barely talked about it privately. I know it’s not funny but I can laugh abo...

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