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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2022
1 points

If you are always keeping what others are thinking about you in your mind you will never be happy. Like, they think of you as a retard bc you stutter, then are you really a retard?(i.e neurologically ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2022
2 points

You don't need to take others' false perceptions of stuttering srsly. Just keep in mind stuttering is just something wrong with your neurological internal circuits that function for articulations, no...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2022
2 points

Most speech "therapy" is shit. And yes it's still politically correct to make fun of stuttering and dismiss it. Ive felt the same way like id rather not talk and just be mute or just end my life. Im r...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2022
2 points

I'd say it depends on who it is. If it's an employer and you're looking to get promoted/respected, you may have to prove yourself over time with abilities outside of verbiage. If it's just an acquaint...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2022
1 points

I have been on zoloft (sertraline) for four years and I cannot say I have "improved." Sure I feel more confident but who knows it the zoloft was the culprit...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2022
2 points

I go to depression ( I don't know if it is depression) when I stay at home. But when I am at college or with people my mind is always occupied about other people's perspective. So i just go along with...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
2 points

Either way brotha don’t say you can’t do anything to get rid of it when many many people have achieved fluency after lifetimes of horrible stuttering and still continue to do so. U can too brotha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
2 points

Defeatist attitude is another weight that lies like a yoke around your head but we gravitate to this because it's easiest after trying so hard and failing . Trick is change your view of failure , wh...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

That's their problem, people are assholes. They don't ignore you beacuse of your stutter they are just assholes inside. I get you stutter suck but you can work with it. If you keep thinking before t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

This is absolutely true. My dad stutters: he's an absolutely brilliant man, but he often gets treated like he's dumb because of the way he speaks. He's a university professor/research scientist, but a...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

You don't need to prove anything. Most people who make fun about the stutters are mostly insecure about themselves. You can obviously call out to them if it gets too much toxic for you and see the dif...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

Your wrong so many people have overcome stutters in 20s and 30s it’s your mindset if you think about it like “ I’m doomed and never going to overcome this” then what do you think will happen? Anybody ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
7 points

If you live your life focused on doing what people want, saying what they want and just caring about what they want, you won’t be you anymore because you spent all of that time focused on what people ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
6 points

When i started thinking fuck this i don't care what people think about my stutter and about me, my stutter got 100% better. What you think about yourself matters more. Talk with your chest high....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
11 points

Am I the only one who thinks this is a massive case of cope? *Of course* what other people think of you matters. Humans are social animals and we define ourselves by our relationships with others. Any...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
2 points

This was a well off area, it’s actually one of the top eye institutions in the country.. And I’m well off - I’m self employed doing marketing and my family is extremely well off. Not trying to be cond...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

It is the same thing as any other disability. I'm sorry this happened to you. The world does not prepare any of us for such cruelty. You did nothing wrong. Just wondering, how do you feel about di...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
6 points

Since the ADA recognizes that stuttering is a disability, what exactly are you gonna get out of letting these people get to you? You can't help that you stutter, and allowing cruel and ignorant peopl...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Access & RightsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
14 points

Bro i was worried about my stutter at every prt of my life. When i started my university, i was worried, but turns out it was all pretty good. When i had my first serious relationship, i was worried, ...

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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
28 points

Screw em. There are always people who won’t see the worth in you, and non-stutters deal with the same issue. Know and believe in your quality, and don’t pay any mind to the idiots who can’t see it....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception