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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

Don't listen to the people on this sub. While they may disagree with your approach, they don't need to be rude. Thanks for sharing...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

I had the good fortune of making friends who weren't uncomfortable or awkward about my stutter, which helped a lot. Still, it's a constant battle. I look for small victories throughout the day to feel...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2018
2 points

haha.. yeah.. my family has learnt to be patient though.. (even though the laughs are so fake).. friends are still mean...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
1 points

I wasn't sure from the post if the stress and tension was being caused by the stuttering or something else. I would suggest you be there for each other. Keep communicating with each other. Even if he ...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
1 points

Think about why you are embarrassed about your stuttering. Think about what you are afraid of? Why? Reason it out in your head. Then talk with others, ask them how they feel about your stuttering. You...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
1 points

I wish I was close enough with my dad to have a healthy joke about my stutter....

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
2 points

"How are you?" is always a good starter to see how chatty people are feeling. Asking questions and taking an interest in people's lives is always a good way to build rapport with people in general. I...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
1 points

Hey there! I'll just tell you about some of the interactions I've had with my wife recently, I think it relates a lot to your post. So, I'm a stutterer, 30 years old. Similar to your boyfriend, I too...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
2 points

You're very welcome. He's probably feeling hopeless that any medication would help but we all react differently to head meds. Maybe the last one just didn't work well for him but you'll just have to w...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
5 points

Yup. They have no f’ing clue how much it sucks. But it sounds like they like you and want to hear what you have to say. They don’t get it and they never will. Do you have friends who stutter irl?...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
1 points

Are you near a National Stuttering Association Chapter or one of the other support groups? You are not alone. I’m glad you found us here. It sounds like your parents are clueless. Maybe print some i...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
1 points

I've seen improvements in my own speech from both 1) sharing and expressing emotional things and 2) physical practice speaking. It sounds like you'd gain a lot from a friend to confide in, even if it ...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2018
6 points

First: Don't pay attention to Dr. Phil. Listen to actual professionals instead. Second: If you feel like doing speech therapy again, definitely go do that! Therapy can be fickle in that it's not nece...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
2 points

Oh my. Similar story but my parents would never say anything like that. I’m so sorry. I would just stay away from them. They only bring negativity to you. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
4 points

welcome! we're glad to have you! Check out the upcoming events in the side bar. If you're in the US there may be a conference nearby where you can meet other people who stutter in the flesh!!...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
2 points

I've been extremely lucky. I was never bullied, I had fantastic speech therapists, I have never viewed having a stutter as being a negative thing. Yeah, its frustrating, it's inconvenient sometimes, b...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
2 points

Of course I read your post. :) I was just curious about the details. Some of it could be managed on your own side, and some of it may even be possible to change in others....

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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
12 points

I just found this subreddit, and I already love it.

I just found this subreddit, and I already love it. My whole life I've had to deal with my stutter. I now know there are lots of people like me, and it makes me happy to know there are people like me ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
13 points

That is such a great question. You are a wholesome person. Thank you for being so kind and thoughtful of others....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
1 points

yes. good to know i'm not the only way who felt this way. but i know it was meant to be lighthearted....

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